Category: Sex, Relationships & Love

Polyamory: A beginners guide (repost)

Sex, Relationships & Love

Polyamory: A beginners guide (repost)

When I was in high school, there was a time I was dating three people at once. All…

Things to Know When Using a Strap-on for the First Time (or Any Time)

Sex, Relationships & Love

Things to Know When Using a Strap-on for the First Time (or Any Time)

The strap. Fun for all folx, men, women and GNC (gender-nonconforming) folx. Straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual and pansexual.…

I’m Officially Missing You: A Few Tips on Handling a Break Up

Sex, Relationships & Love

I’m Officially Missing You: A Few Tips on Handling a Break Up

Heartbreak is real and as HOLAA!, we also want to be there for you during the bad as…

Politically I choose to only date women! (Say what now?)

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

Politically I choose to only date women! (Say what now?)

Over the last few months I have found myself speaking about my sexual orientation and how I identify…

Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.

Sex, Relationships & Love

Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.

When people think about non-monogamy a whole bunch of things tend to come up. Some people think it’s…

So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity

Sometimes in polite conversation you gotta use ten dollar words in a three dollar conversation a.k.a. you gotta…

‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons

Sex, Relationships & Love

‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons

By Nnenna Marcia/ @NnennaMarcia. I’d never tried a strap-on before I met her, not being one for the introduction…

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…

The Clitoris: Dope Facts You Should Know

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

The Clitoris: Dope Facts You Should Know

Oh we do love the clit. The clitoris is an erogenous zone located in the vulva. It is…