Category: Sex, Relationships & Love

A request from a victim of queer domestic violence

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A request from a victim of queer domestic violence

By Nyx McLean/@NyxMcLean Can we please start to talk about domestic violence in queer relationships? It happens within…

A Guide To Having Queer Sex For The First Time

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A Guide To Having Queer Sex For The First Time

You never learned how to have sex with another person with a vulva? That's OK.  Breathe.  Having queer…

Checking Out of The Heart Break Hotel: Tips on getting through the end of a relationship

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Checking Out of The Heart Break Hotel: Tips on getting through the end of a relationship

Dating can be the ghetto and sometimes you find yourself checking into the Heartbreak Hotel. And because HOLAA!…

Kitchens are made for heat

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Kitchens are made for heat

By Amae Babs wasn’t one for ‘pussy power’ playlists but this feline myself Friday from Space was good.…

All Yours

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All Yours

By Kare Kibaara Round One You're there, across the room undressing me with your eyes. I can feel…

Erotic Series: Exposed

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Erotic Series: Exposed

Beryl Opiyo I feel her eyes on me, staring, gauging, taking me in. I look at her through…

Erotic Series: Once Upon A Text

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Erotic Series: Once Upon A Text

By Urban Shaman Me: Hey, I was thinking about you today.  Crush: Aww, you're sweet! Me: No, actually…

QUEERING LOVE PART II: Love in the time of patriarchy

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QUEERING LOVE PART II: Love in the time of patriarchy

By Bel South Fight the patriarchy! (In your own home) Fighting the patriarchy, the straight-thinking upward mobility-obsessed power-hungry…

QUEERING LOVE PART I: Introduction and Part I

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QUEERING LOVE PART I: Introduction and Part I

By Bel South Introduction When the HOLAAfrica! team put out a call for stories about queer love it…

Erotic Series: A Ritual

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Erotic Series: A Ritual

By Lady Lighthouse It’s become a ritual.  Sort of.  Always at her house.  Always a delicious meal, sometimes…

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