Category: Sex, Relationships & Love

Summer Dungeon Nights

Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

Summer Dungeon Nights

By Coily Era “Lub dub, lub dub, lub dub.” I could hear the workings of her heart as…

Asexuality, Simply a Lack of Sexual Attraction? Nah.:  Attractions & relationships (Part II)

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

Asexuality, Simply a Lack of Sexual Attraction? Nah.:  Attractions & relationships (Part II)

In Part I of this series (which you can find it here) we listed all the identities that…

Asexuality, Simply a Lack of Sexual Attraction? Nah.: Identities (Part I)

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

Asexuality, Simply a Lack of Sexual Attraction? Nah.: Identities (Part I)

Make sure you check out part II of this list here. There are so many different things we…

Sex and curiosity: The fantasy on the other side of straight.

Sex, Relationships & Love

Sex and curiosity: The fantasy on the other side of straight.

By ‘A lover of women’ I had always found women intriguing. I did not necessarily see it as…

Polyamory: A beginners guide (repost)

Sex, Relationships & Love

Polyamory: A beginners guide (repost)

When I was in high school, there was a time I was dating three people at once. All…

Things to Know When Using a Strap-on for the First Time (or Any Time)

Sex, Relationships & Love

Things to Know When Using a Strap-on for the First Time (or Any Time)

The strap. Fun for all folx, men, women and GNC (gender-nonconforming) folx. Straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual and pansexual.…

I’m Officially Missing You: A Few Tips on Handling a Break Up

Sex, Relationships & Love

I’m Officially Missing You: A Few Tips on Handling a Break Up

Heartbreak is real and as HOLAA!, we also want to be there for you during the bad as…

Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.

Sex, Relationships & Love

Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.

When people think about non-monogamy a whole bunch of things tend to come up. Some people think it’s…

So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity

Sometimes in polite conversation you gotta use ten dollar words in a three dollar conversation a.k.a. you gotta…