Sex and curiosity: The fantasy on the other side of straight.
By ‘A lover of women’ I had always found women intriguing. I did not necessarily see it as…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Activist, Kilifi or Celesbian?: A (Non-Exhaustive) List of Types of Lesbians/Queer Women
Hands up if you want to know what type of lesbian you are! Well we got you. As…
Polyamory: A beginners guide (repost)
When I was in high school, there was a time I was dating three people at once. All…
Things to Know When Using a Strap-on for the First Time (or Any Time)
The strap. Fun for all folx, men, women and GNC (gender-nonconforming) folx. Straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual and pansexual.…
I’m Officially Missing You: A Few Tips on Handling a Break Up
Heartbreak is real and as HOLAA!, we also want to be there for you during the bad as…
Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love
Politically I choose to only date women! (Say what now?)
Over the last few months I have found myself speaking about my sexual orientation and how I identify…
Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.
When people think about non-monogamy a whole bunch of things tend to come up. Some people think it’s…
Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love
So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity
Sometimes in polite conversation you gotta use ten dollar words in a three dollar conversation a.k.a. you gotta…
‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons
By Nnenna Marcia/ @NnennaMarcia. I’d never tried a strap-on before I met her, not being one for the introduction…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)
Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…