Why are friendships so important? How do you navigate casual dating after years of being in serious relationships?…
By Thamsanqa Scaps Zulu People who don’t understand the word ‘lesbian’ will assume I’m a man trapped in…
Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
By Sté The more I grow up, the less I feel... womanly. It can be a bit of…
Helen’s right eye twitched when Amaka rushed ahead of her to open the restaurant door. It twitched some…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…
Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love
Oh we do love the clit. The clitoris is an erogenous zone located in the vulva. It is…
Over the years more and more folx have become interested in kink so we at HOLAA! decided to…
Notification comes up. It’s a new photo from bae. It is also past midnight, so you know this…
By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire first…
By MaThokoTo a younger me – “Don’t come out, if you don’t want to” Coming out – the act…