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Basically…Life – Ep. 26: The Basic Life of Kgothatso – Casual dating, being a s*x coach & loving your friends deeply.

Why are friendships so important? How do you navigate casual dating after years of being in serious relationships? What is a sex coach? In this episode we get to sit…

Basically…Life – Ep. 26: The Basic Life of Kgothatso – Casual dating, being a s*x coach & loving your friends deeply

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Basically…Life – Ep. 26: The Basic Life of Kgothatso – Casual dating, being a s*x coach & loving your friends deeply

Why are friendships so important? How do you navigate casual dating after years of being in serious relationships?…

Masculinity and Femininity: when pink panties don’t match your tuxedo

Politics & Lifestyle

Masculinity and Femininity: when pink panties don’t match your tuxedo

By Thamsanqa Scaps Zulu People who don’t understand the word ‘lesbian’ will assume I’m a man trapped in…

On being a gender outsider

Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle

On being a gender outsider

By Sté The more I grow up, the less I feel... womanly. It can be a bit of…

On Gender Roles: “Sister, Who Is the Girl in Your Relationship?”

Gender & Identity

On Gender Roles: “Sister, Who Is the Girl in Your Relationship?”

Helen’s right eye twitched when Amaka rushed ahead of her to open the restaurant door. It twitched some…

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…

The Clitoris: Dope Facts You Should Know

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

The Clitoris: Dope Facts You Should Know

Oh we do love the clit. The clitoris is an erogenous zone located in the vulva. It is…

Sub, Munch and Consent: Kink Terms To Get You Started

Sex, Relationships & Love

Sub, Munch and Consent: Kink Terms To Get You Started

Over the years more and more folx have become interested in kink so we at HOLAA! decided to…

Sexting Etiquette 101: How to Send Your Juicy Bits Digitally and Safely

Love & Relationships

Sexting Etiquette 101: How to Send Your Juicy Bits Digitally and Safely

Notification comes up. It’s a new photo from bae. It is also past midnight, so you know this…

On the Business of Choosing Dears

Politics & Lifestyle

On the Business of Choosing Dears

By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire first…

Staying in closet as a form of self care (Reblog)

Politics & Lifestyle

Staying in closet as a form of self care (Reblog)

By MaThokoTo a younger me – “Don’t come out, if you don’t want to” Coming out – the act…

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