Afro Sexual Politics,Afro Sexual Wisdom,Gender & Identity

Queer Imposter Syndrome: Am I Really Gay Enough?.

Maybe sometimes you don’t quite feel queer enough. You might not be a gold star lesbian, or a shiny gay. Sometimes you might not feel quite enough for “the community”.…

Queer Imposter Syndrome: Am I Really Gay Enough?

Afro Sexual Politics,Afro Sexual Wisdom,Gender & Identity

Queer Imposter Syndrome: Am I Really Gay Enough?

Maybe sometimes you don’t quite feel queer enough. You might not be a gold star lesbian, or a…

On being a sexual poltergeist: Ways people are digitally ditching each other

Love & Relationships

On being a sexual poltergeist: Ways people are digitally ditching each other

Ghosting: (noun) the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from…

Curiosity not (always) condemnation: On the freeing potential of queerness (Repost)

Politics & Lifestyle

Curiosity not (always) condemnation: On the freeing potential of queerness (Repost)

By Anima Adjepong  In my last essay, I discussed a comment I overheard from a Ghanaian woman who…

‘There is Not A Rule Book’: A Conversation on Queer Love.

Love & Relationships

‘There is Not A Rule Book’: A Conversation on Queer Love.

By Bel South In this open and honest conversation with two women Bel South explores the various faces…

Basically…Life – Ep. 19: The Basic Universe: Hot Spots incl. self pleasure, the streets & sleeping with a bestie

HOLAA! in a Hot Spot,Podcasts & Video

Basically…Life – Ep. 19: The Basic Universe: Hot Spots incl. self pleasure, the streets & sleeping with a bestie

In this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around touching yourself, hitting on women…

Curiosity not (always) condemnation: On the freeing potential of queerness (Repost)

Politics & Lifestyle

Curiosity not (always) condemnation: On the freeing potential of queerness (Repost)

By Anima Adjepong  In my last essay, I discussed a comment I overheard from a Ghanaian woman who…

The Wildness Ep 29: Masturbation: Knowing your body, busting the myths and closing the orgasm gap

Podcasts & Video

The Wildness Ep 29: Masturbation: Knowing your body, busting the myths and closing the orgasm gap

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Is masturbation always political or can…

Monogamy, Polyamory, and Open Lesbian Relationships

Love & Relationships,Sex

Monogamy, Polyamory, and Open Lesbian Relationships

Often times, we confuse polyamory with open relationships. Polyamory is being in multiple (intimate) romantic/sexual relationships, with consenting…

Queer Lockdown – Essential Workers

Politics & Lifestyle

Queer Lockdown – Essential Workers

By Tshegofatso Senne (@mbongomuffin), Illustrated by studiostudioworkwork LGBTQIA+ people have been particularly affected by the COVID-19 pandemic. In a…

Hiding in a second closet: Silences around abuse in queer relationships

Love & Relationships

Hiding in a second closet: Silences around abuse in queer relationships

In the queer community the idea is that everything is fine — we are loving and sexing, and…