Politics & Lifestyle

Fat Gurl Culture – the truth about being a black fat femme.

By Ntombi’Zodidi Mazana I want to start off by saying this - I use the word “gurl” instead of girl due to a number of reasons, but the biggest reason…

Fat Gurl Culture – the truth about being a black fat femme

Politics & Lifestyle

Fat Gurl Culture – the truth about being a black fat femme

By Ntombi’Zodidi Mazana I want to start off by saying this - I use the word “gurl” instead…

Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.

Sex, Relationships & Love

Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.

When people think about non-monogamy a whole bunch of things tend to come up. Some people think it’s…

Basically…Life – Ep. 30: The Basic Life of Eliana – Sugar daddy energy, the dirty thirties and dating in Mozambique

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Basically…Life – Ep. 30: The Basic Life of Eliana – Sugar daddy energy, the dirty thirties and dating in Mozambique

In this episode we get to sit down with this beauty form Mozambique to chat about dating, having…

Revisiting the essay ‘Homosexuality is ‘unafrican’ in pre-colonial history’

Politics & Lifestyle

Revisiting the essay ‘Homosexuality is ‘unafrican’ in pre-colonial history’

By Cosmic Yoruba I wrote the essay, “Homosexuality is “unAfrican” in pre-colonial history” a couple of years ago. Thanks to HOLAA!,…

So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity

Sometimes in polite conversation you gotta use ten dollar words in a three dollar conversation a.k.a. you gotta…

Basically… Life – Ep. 27: The Basic Life Of Astrid – Tenderness in teaching rope, head strokes and blood moon dates.

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Basically… Life – Ep. 27: The Basic Life Of Astrid – Tenderness in teaching rope, head strokes and blood moon dates.

In this episode we sit down with shibari/ rope practironer Astrid to chat about everyting from figuring out…

‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons

Sex, Relationships & Love

‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons

By Nnenna Marcia/ @NnennaMarcia. I’d never tried a strap-on before I met her, not being one for the introduction…

Basically…Life – Ep. 26: The Basic Life of Kgothatso – Casual dating, being a s*x coach & loving your friends deeply

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Basically…Life – Ep. 26: The Basic Life of Kgothatso – Casual dating, being a s*x coach & loving your friends deeply

Why are friendships so important? How do you navigate casual dating after years of being in serious relationships?…

Masculinity and Femininity: when pink panties don’t match your tuxedo

Politics & Lifestyle

Masculinity and Femininity: when pink panties don’t match your tuxedo

By Thamsanqa Scaps Zulu People who don’t understand the word ‘lesbian’ will assume I’m a man trapped in…

On being a gender outsider

Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle

On being a gender outsider

By Sté The more I grow up, the less I feel... womanly. It can be a bit of…