Erotic Series: Once Upon A Text
By Urban Shaman Me: Hey, I was thinking about you today. Crush: Aww, you're sweet! Me: No, actually…
QUEERING LOVE PART II: Love in the time of patriarchy
By Bel South Fight the patriarchy! (In your own home) Fighting the patriarchy, the straight-thinking upward mobility-obsessed power-hungry…
QUEERING LOVE PART I: Introduction and Part I
By Bel South Introduction When the HOLAAfrica! team put out a call for stories about queer love it…
Erotic Series: A Ritual
By Lady Lighthouse It’s become a ritual. Sort of. Always at her house. Always a delicious meal, sometimes…
Tops, bottoms and switches: What flavour are you?
Sex is dance. There are people who lead, some who follow, others who can’t dance and people who…
One, Two, Three’s a Party: Tips on Planning Your Threesome
A threesome is when three people join together for sexual pleasure. It can be fun but can also…
Listen and learn about f**kin: Sex Positive Podcasts To Know
Understanding sex can be very tricky, sticky so why not listen to people who can make it a…
A Short Guide to Effective Communication (especially when things are popping off)
Any relationship expert worth their coins will tell you, to make any relationship work you have to communicate…
Queer for Christmas: A Guide To Surviving and Thriving The Holidays
The holidays can be a lot. For everyone. Not only are you probably dropping ALL the coins because…
Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
Compulsive heterosexuality: Maybe you are born with it. Maybe you are a little queer
Here is a question for you: re you straight or is it just compulsory heterosexuality? In a lot…