Politics & Lifestyle

How to support someone you care about who is in an abusive relationship..

A few of us have been here before, either in abusive relationships or as friends bearing witness to our closest people enduring abusive relationships. Or we’ve experienced both. Either way,…

How to support someone you care about who is in an abusive relationship.

Politics & Lifestyle

How to support someone you care about who is in an abusive relationship.

A few of us have been here before, either in abusive relationships or as friends bearing witness to…

Checking Out of The Heart Break Hotel: Tips on getting through the end of a relationship

Podcasts & Video,Sex, Relationships & Love

Checking Out of The Heart Break Hotel: Tips on getting through the end of a relationship

Dating can be the ghetto and sometimes you find yourself checking into the Heartbreak Hotel. And because HOLAA!…

Kitchens are made for heat

Sex, Relationships & Love

Kitchens are made for heat

By Amae Babs wasn’t one for ‘pussy power’ playlists but this feline myself Friday from Space was good.…

All Yours

Sex, Relationships & Love

All Yours

By Kare Kibaara Round One You're there, across the room undressing me with your eyes. I can feel…

Erotic Series: Exposed

Sex, Relationships & Love

Erotic Series: Exposed

Beryl Opiyo I feel her eyes on me, staring, gauging, taking me in. I look at her through…

What are you getting off too?: A look at feminist porn

Politics & Lifestyle

What are you getting off too?: A look at feminist porn

Folx are fapping, stroking, pinching and rubbing themselves and sometimes when it happens they need good content to…

Basically… Life: Ep 31 – The Basic Universe – Hot Spots incl. being poly in a monogamous relationship and more.

Podcasts & Video

Basically… Life: Ep 31 – The Basic Universe – Hot Spots incl. being poly in a monogamous relationship and more.

In this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around being polyam and queer in…

Things We Need To Normalize in the Queer Community.

Gender & Identity

Things We Need To Normalize in the Queer Community.

Look, truth is we have some great things in the queer community but we also have some shady…

Hiding in a second closet: Silences around abuse in queer relationships

Politics & Lifestyle

Hiding in a second closet: Silences around abuse in queer relationships

In the queer community the idea is that everything is fine — we are loving and sexing, and…

Preparing for ‘Two Vulva’ Sex: A Quick Guide To Queer Sex

Politics & Lifestyle

Preparing for ‘Two Vulva’ Sex: A Quick Guide To Queer Sex

You have come out, you are ready and DTF (Down To Fuck). Only problem is, you have never…