Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
How to show up for your trans loves: On Being A Good Trans Ally
Loving and living with your trans loves takes intention, knowledge and love and focus. There are so many…
What Happens When You Miss Your Abuser?
TW: Abuse The first time I told someone I missed someone who had gaslighted me (gas lighting: a…
Safely embracing ‘Hoe is life’: On queerness and sexual knowledge.
There have been times when I wondered why being queer felt, socially, like a hot mess. Sure, there…
Owning my sex, even after the abuse
By Marygrace TW: sexual abuse/assault Two months after the abuse stopped, I needed to get back in the…
On the Business of Choosing Dears
By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire first…
How to support someone you care about who is in an abusive relationship.
A few of us have been here before, either in abusive relationships or as friends bearing witness to…
What are you getting off too?: A look at feminist porn
Folx are fapping, stroking, pinching and rubbing themselves and sometimes when it happens they need good content to…
Hiding in a second closet: Silences around abuse in queer relationships
In the queer community the idea is that everything is fine — we are loving and sexing, and…
Preparing for ‘Two Vulva’ Sex: A Quick Guide To Queer Sex
You have come out, you are ready and DTF (Down To Fuck). Only problem is, you have never…
Listen and learn about f**kin: Sex Positive Podcasts To Know
Understanding sex can be very tricky, sticky so why not listen to people who can make it a…