Owning my sex, even after the abuse
By Marygrace TW: sexual abuse/assault Two months after the abuse stopped, I needed to get back in the…
On the Business of Choosing Dears
By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire first…
How to support someone you care about who is in an abusive relationship.
A few of us have been here before, either in abusive relationships or as friends bearing witness to…
What are you getting off too?: A look at feminist porn
Folx are fapping, stroking, pinching and rubbing themselves and sometimes when it happens they need good content to…
Hiding in a second closet: Silences around abuse in queer relationships
In the queer community the idea is that everything is fine — we are loving and sexing, and…
Preparing for ‘Two Vulva’ Sex: A Quick Guide To Queer Sex
You have come out, you are ready and DTF (Down To Fuck). Only problem is, you have never…
Listen and learn about f**kin: Sex Positive Podcasts To Know
Understanding sex can be very tricky, sticky so why not listen to people who can make it a…
Queer for Christmas: A Guide To Surviving and Thriving The Holidays
The holidays can be a lot. For everyone. Not only are you probably dropping ALL the coins because…
Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
Compulsive heterosexuality: Maybe you are born with it. Maybe you are a little queer
Here is a question for you: re you straight or is it just compulsory heterosexuality? In a lot…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Summer Dungeon Nights
By Coily Era “Lub dub, lub dub, lub dub.” I could hear the workings of her heart as…