Masculinity and Femininity: when pink panties don’t match your tuxedo
By Thamsanqa Scaps Zulu People who don’t understand the word ‘lesbian’ will assume I’m a man trapped in…
Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
On being a gender outsider
By Sté The more I grow up, the less I feel... womanly. It can be a bit of…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)
Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…
Staying in closet as a form of self care (Reblog)
By MaThokoTo a younger me – “Don’t come out, if you don’t want to” Coming out – the act…
Podcasts & Video,Politics & Lifestyle
Basically…Life – Ep. 16: The Basic Life of Siya: You Have to be Gay to Know God, dinner party talk and Only Fans
In this one we sit down with the incredible mind that is Siya Khumalo and answer: What happens…
Afro Sexual Wisdom,Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
#QueerSexIs: A fun, relatable bunch of tweets on queer sex.
What is queer sex? We went to the Twitter streets to find out what having sex within this…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Selecting Sex Toys: The Basics
The first time I used a toy with a partner was an interesting time. He decided to name…
Love & Relationships,Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Platonic Intimacy: Am I Just Trying to Marry My Homies?
We are constantly having to navigate being friends with someone or being into them. But ever had a…
Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
‘Doing supi’ or something else to be
By Dr. Anima Adjepong An image comes to mind: an empty field of green grass. In the horizon to…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
In Defense of Orgasms Faked
By Mélisande Deschenel I believe in fake orgasms. I believe in them for the greater good of the…