Category: Politics & Lifestyle

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…

On the Business of Choosing Dears

Politics & Lifestyle

On the Business of Choosing Dears

By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire first…

Staying in closet as a form of self care (Reblog)

Politics & Lifestyle

Staying in closet as a form of self care (Reblog)

By MaThokoTo a younger me – “Don’t come out, if you don’t want to” Coming out – the act…

Basically…Life – Ep. 16: The Basic Life of Siya: You Have to be Gay to Know God, dinner party talk and Only Fans

Podcasts & Video,Politics & Lifestyle

Basically…Life – Ep. 16: The Basic Life of Siya: You Have to be Gay to Know God, dinner party talk and Only Fans

In this one we sit down with the incredible mind that is Siya Khumalo and answer: What happens…

#QueerSexIs: A fun, relatable bunch of tweets on queer sex.

Afro Sexual Wisdom,Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

#QueerSexIs: A fun, relatable bunch of tweets on queer sex.

What is queer sex? We went to the Twitter streets to find out what having sex within this…

Selecting Sex Toys: The Basics

Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

Selecting Sex Toys: The Basics

The first time I used a toy with a partner was an interesting time. He decided to name…

Platonic Intimacy: Am I Just Trying to Marry My Homies?

Love & Relationships,Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

Platonic Intimacy: Am I Just Trying to Marry My Homies?

We are constantly having to navigate being friends with someone or being into them. But ever had a…

‘Doing supi’ or something else to be

Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle

‘Doing supi’ or something else to be

By Dr. Anima Adjepong An image comes to mind: an empty field of green grass. In the horizon to…

In Defense of Orgasms Faked

Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

In Defense of Orgasms Faked

By Mélisande Deschenel I believe in fake orgasms. I believe in them for the greater good of the…

Curiosity not (always) condemnation: On the freeing potential of queerness (Repost)

Politics & Lifestyle

Curiosity not (always) condemnation: On the freeing potential of queerness (Repost)

By Anima Adjepong  In my last essay, I discussed a comment I overheard from a Ghanaian woman who…