Afro Sexual Politics

Not all queers want to be queens: The dominant to precarious queer spectrum.

By Kneo Mokgopa There are straight women who entertain and accessorise themselves with eccentric and loud gay men that produce catch-phrases when you put white wine on the table -…

Not all queers want to be queens: The dominant to precarious queer spectrum

Afro Sexual Politics

Not all queers want to be queens: The dominant to precarious queer spectrum

By Kneo Mokgopa There are straight women who entertain and accessorise themselves with eccentric and loud gay men…

The bruised silence of queer women

Afro Sexual Politics

The bruised silence of queer women

By Carl Collinson What sustains it? Fear. Being afraid to be alone and the idea of not having…

iGay, iLesbian, iBisexual – Xhosalisation of English

Afro Sexual Wisdom

iGay, iLesbian, iBisexual – Xhosalisation of English

By Lwando Scott A few months ago I received an e-mail asking my advice about IsiXhosa equivalents of…

Bisexuality vs. pansexuality: What’s the difference?

Gender & Identity

Bisexuality vs. pansexuality: What’s the difference?

Sexuality is very fluid and there are so many ways we can identify, which can sometimes be confusing.…

Owning my sex, even after the abuse

Politics & Lifestyle

Owning my sex, even after the abuse

By Marygrace TW: sexual abuse/assault  Two months after the abuse stopped, I needed to get back in the…

On the Business of Choosing Dears

Politics & Lifestyle

On the Business of Choosing Dears

By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire first…

Basically… Life: Ep. 43 -The Basic Life of Rix The Poet: Masculinity, speaking about s*x, and cat fishing.

Podcasts & Video

Basically… Life: Ep. 43 -The Basic Life of Rix The Poet: Masculinity, speaking about s*x, and cat fishing.

In this episode we have our first cis-heterosexual man! Rix the poet sits down with Tiff to discuss…

Basically… Life: Ep. 44. The Basic Life of Kebone Proteas, Race and Culture and Nude First Dates.Basically… Life:

Podcasts & Video

Basically… Life: Ep. 44. The Basic Life of Kebone Proteas, Race and Culture and Nude First Dates.Basically… Life:

In this episode Tiff sits down with the beautiful Kebone to discuss dating in a new country and…

A request from a victim of queer domestic violence

Sex, Relationships & Love

A request from a victim of queer domestic violence

By Nyx McLean/@NyxMcLean Can we please start to talk about domestic violence in queer relationships? It happens within…

A Guide To Having Queer Sex For The First Time

Sex, Relationships & Love

A Guide To Having Queer Sex For The First Time

You never learned how to have sex with another person with a vulva? That's OK.  Breathe.  Having queer…