QUEERING LOVE PART II: Love in the time of patriarchy
By Bel South Fight the patriarchy! (In your own home) Fighting the patriarchy, the straight-thinking upward mobility-obsessed power-hungry…
QUEERING LOVE PART I: Introduction and Part I
By Bel South Introduction When the HOLAAfrica! team put out a call for stories about queer love it…
Erotic Series: A Ritual
By Lady Lighthouse It’s become a ritual. Sort of. Always at her house. Always a delicious meal, sometimes…
Tops, bottoms and switches: What flavour are you?
Sex is dance. There are people who lead, some who follow, others who can’t dance and people who…
One, Two, Three’s a Party: Tips on Planning Your Threesome
A threesome is when three people join together for sexual pleasure. It can be fun but can also…
A Short Guide to Effective Communication (especially when things are popping off)
Any relationship expert worth their coins will tell you, to make any relationship work you have to communicate…
13 Questions You Need To Ask Yourself Before Entering A Relationship
Many of us feel the “need” to be in a relationship in order to keep our sanity. For…
Coming into my queerness: A tale of Arabic pop songs, sleeping naked, and firsts
By Jaha I was ten when we got our first satellite dish. As those were heavily sanctioned by…
How to hit your sexual reset button.
When it comes to sex sometimes you just need a change. It could be because of heavy feelings…
Why Your Relationship Isn’t Over Just Because You Stopped Having Sex
Our sex lives are weird. It often comes in waves – usually no sex at the beginning of…