Category: Sex, Relationships & Love

I’m Officially Missing You: A Few Tips on Handling a Break Up

Sex, Relationships & Love

I’m Officially Missing You: A Few Tips on Handling a Break Up

Heartbreak is real and as HOLAA!, we also want to be there for you during the bad as…

Politically I choose to only date women! (Say what now?)

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

Politically I choose to only date women! (Say what now?)

Over the last few months I have found myself speaking about my sexual orientation and how I identify…

Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.

Sex, Relationships & Love

Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.

When people think about non-monogamy a whole bunch of things tend to come up. Some people think it’s…

So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity

Sometimes in polite conversation you gotta use ten dollar words in a three dollar conversation a.k.a. you gotta…

‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons

Sex, Relationships & Love

‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons

By Nnenna Marcia/ @NnennaMarcia. I’d never tried a strap-on before I met her, not being one for the introduction…

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…

The Clitoris: Dope Facts You Should Know

Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love

The Clitoris: Dope Facts You Should Know

Oh we do love the clit. The clitoris is an erogenous zone located in the vulva. It is…

Sub, Munch and Consent: Kink Terms To Get You Started

Sex, Relationships & Love

Sub, Munch and Consent: Kink Terms To Get You Started

Over the years more and more folx have become interested in kink so we at HOLAA! decided to…

#QueerSexIs: A fun, relatable bunch of tweets on queer sex.

Afro Sexual Wisdom,Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

#QueerSexIs: A fun, relatable bunch of tweets on queer sex.

What is queer sex? We went to the Twitter streets to find out what having sex within this…

Speaking about sex isn’t easy, but it’s worth it

Love & Relationships,Sex, Relationships & Love

Speaking about sex isn’t easy, but it’s worth it

Bringing uncomfortable things up is uncomfortable. Be it that colleague who keeps stealing your lunch, your friend whose…