Things We Need To Normalize in the Queer Community.
Look, truth is we have some great things in the queer community but we also have some shady…
Erotic Series: Once Upon A Text
By Urban Shaman Me: Hey, I was thinking about you today. Crush: Aww, you're sweet! Me: No, actually…
QUEERING LOVE PART II: Love in the time of patriarchy
By Bel South Fight the patriarchy! (In your own home) Fighting the patriarchy, the straight-thinking upward mobility-obsessed power-hungry…
QUEERING LOVE PART I: Introduction and Part I
By Bel South Introduction When the HOLAAfrica! team put out a call for stories about queer love it…
Erotic Series: A Ritual
By Lady Lighthouse It’s become a ritual. Sort of. Always at her house. Always a delicious meal, sometimes…
Tops, bottoms and switches: What flavour are you?
Sex is dance. There are people who lead, some who follow, others who can’t dance and people who…
Listen and learn about f**kin: Sex Positive Podcasts To Know
Understanding sex can be very tricky, sticky so why not listen to people who can make it a…
A Short Guide to Effective Communication (especially when things are popping off)
Any relationship expert worth their coins will tell you, to make any relationship work you have to communicate…
How to hit your sexual reset button.
When it comes to sex sometimes you just need a change. It could be because of heavy feelings…
Sex and curiosity: The fantasy on the other side of straight.
By ‘A lover of women’ I had always found women intriguing. I did not necessarily see it as…