Tag: HOLAA

I’m Officially Missing You: A Few Tips on Handling a Break Up

Sex, Relationships & Love

I’m Officially Missing You: A Few Tips on Handling a Break Up

Heartbreak is real and as HOLAA!, we also want to be there for you during the bad as…

Selecting Sex Toys: The Basics

Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

Selecting Sex Toys: The Basics

The first time I used a toy with a partner was an interesting time. He decided to name…

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt I

Gender & Identity

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt I

Sexuality is a spectrum and gender is a construct. Thems the facts. With that in mind there is…

Date Ideas: Intentionally Spending Time Together

Love & Relationships

Date Ideas: Intentionally Spending Time Together

Art by Oh Snap! It's Alexandra's Art. Dates are a part of intentional time together which is such…

‘There is Not A Rule Book’: A Conversation on Queer Love.

Love & Relationships

‘There is Not A Rule Book’: A Conversation on Queer Love.

By Bel South In this open and honest conversation with two women Bel South explores the various faces…

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Afro Sexual Wisdom

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Coming out is possibly the worst thing that you could ever want to do. Ever. It is scary…

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Politics & Lifestyle

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

By Cosmic Yoruba   Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis,…

How to absolutely and completely #win at open relationships Pt I: In the Beginning there was Me, Myself and I

Afro Sexual Wisdom

How to absolutely and completely #win at open relationships Pt I: In the Beginning there was Me, Myself and I

By That Other Dyke / @ThatOtherDyke Ok. The title is a lie. A harsh one because I have…

All aboard the Virgin Struggle Bus: The intersection of virginity and queerness

Sex

All aboard the Virgin Struggle Bus: The intersection of virginity and queerness

By Hamda Lawal When I was 16, I made a covenant with God that I would remain a…

The Children who started the fire Pt I

Love & Relationships

The Children who started the fire Pt I

By Ashley Makue/ @AfroElleMag @Afrofiend  Some children dry the leaves from watching the tree too long; sometimes trees…