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‘I am penis, hear me roar’: The threat of lesbianism

Afro Sexual Wisdom

‘I am penis, hear me roar’: The threat of lesbianism

Men seem to labour under the misapprehension that sex is about them. This is not a hastily made…

A little longer: A plea for full existence

Politics & Lifestyle

A little longer: A plea for full existence

By Kenyan Annonymous Dear Family, This is one of those letters. Where you don’t know where to start…

Nyumbani

Love & Relationships

Nyumbani

By Neema The moonlight was just right against the ocean, My baby was right next to me. We…

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Afro Sexual Wisdom

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Coming out is possibly the worst thing that you could ever want to do. Ever. It is scary…

On the Business of Choosing Dears

Love & Relationships

On the Business of Choosing Dears

By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe     It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire…

One Night Stands

Love & Relationships

One Night Stands

By Alexis Teyie/ @alexteyie Somehow I had convinced myself that one night stands must be life-affirming. That they were…

Things to know about bisexuals: A beginner’s guide (Repost)

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Things to know about bisexuals: A beginner’s guide (Repost)

By HOLAA resident bisexual Bisexuals get a lot of hassle. Not sure when all the shade started being…

Outset

Love & Relationships

Outset

It was always the same story. She would want him as much as he wanted her. She would…

Existencia Lésbica Afrocolobiana

Politics & Lifestyle

Existencia Lésbica Afrocolobiana

Por Audre María Lorde Matamba Hace varios meses, me di a la tarea  de   localizar al mayor número…

Sexual Health For WSWs in Nigeria And Coming Out to My Doctor

Politics & Lifestyle

Sexual Health For WSWs in Nigeria And Coming Out to My Doctor

By Dyke Road If you lived in Nigeria, where being gay or lesbian is a heinous social and…