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So, I Let a Guy Fuck Me

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So, I Let a Guy Fuck Me

By Dyke Road/@dykeroadbaby So I let a guy fuck me. It wasn't cloth-ripping or somewhat perverted. It wasn't hot in…

HOLAA on HIV: ‘My Girlfriend is HIV+ but we fight through’

Love & Relationships

HOLAA on HIV: ‘My Girlfriend is HIV+ but we fight through’

Anonymously submitted through HIV Form First and foremost I would like to applaud you for providing this platform.…

HIV and ME: African LGBTI Women speak on HIV/Aids – Pt II

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HIV and ME: African LGBTI Women speak on HIV/Aids – Pt II

A moment ago we put out a call to start a conversation about how Afro-Queer Women understand, experience and deal…

Different Flavours, One Spoon: On being buddhist, a mother, queer, Zulu and much more

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Different Flavours, One Spoon: On being buddhist, a mother, queer, Zulu and much more

By Zan “Buddhist?” *insert supporting raised eyebrow here* But isn't that for white people? Plus, don't they pray…

Pap Smear, Oh Dear!

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Pap Smear, Oh Dear!

By Nadine/ @oldladypants Very few things embarrass me. In fact the last time I was embarrassed was when…

HIV and ME: African LGBTI Women speak on HIV/Aids- Pt I

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HIV and ME: African LGBTI Women speak on HIV/Aids- Pt I

A moment ago we put out a call to start a conversation about how Afro-Queer Women understand, experience…

Face to Face with Fear

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Face to Face with Fear

  By Nthabiseng I’d like to think that it’s because I have not been on this earth long…

HOLAA’s Guide to Loving Yourself by Being Better

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HOLAA’s Guide to Loving Yourself by Being Better

Life can be rough sometimes. And there can be a lot of sharp edges and hard times that…

5 Tips for Avoiding Revenge Porn (re-post)

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5 Tips for Avoiding Revenge Porn (re-post)

Selfies, Instagram, iPhone, Snap Chat. We live in a world where if you don’t take a picture of…

Deliver us from pleasure: An Experience of the Jesus wedge

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Deliver us from pleasure: An Experience of the Jesus wedge

By Dykeroad I had been introduced to- and promptly started chatting up- this young woman. My jokes were…