Tag: HOLAA

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Afro Sexual Wisdom

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Coming out is possibly the worst thing that you could ever want to do. Ever. It is scary…

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

Politics & Lifestyle

Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)

By Cosmic Yoruba   Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis,…

How to absolutely and completely #win at open relationships Pt I: In the Beginning there was Me, Myself and I

Afro Sexual Wisdom

How to absolutely and completely #win at open relationships Pt I: In the Beginning there was Me, Myself and I

By That Other Dyke / @ThatOtherDyke Ok. The title is a lie. A harsh one because I have…

All aboard the Virgin Struggle Bus: The intersection of virginity and queerness

Sex

All aboard the Virgin Struggle Bus: The intersection of virginity and queerness

By Hamda Lawal When I was 16, I made a convenant with God that I would remain a…

The Children who started the fire Pt I

Love & Relationships

The Children who started the fire Pt I

By Ashley Makue/ @AfroElleMag @Afrofiend  Some children dry the leaves from watching the tree too long; sometimes trees…

So, I Let a Guy Fuck Me

Sex

So, I Let a Guy Fuck Me

By Dyke Road/@dykeroadbaby So I let a guy fuck me. It wasn't cloth-ripping or somewhat perverted. It wasn't hot in…

HOLAA on HIV: ‘My Girlfriend is HIV+ but we fight through’

Love & Relationships

HOLAA on HIV: ‘My Girlfriend is HIV+ but we fight through’

Anonymously submitted through HIV Form First and foremost I would like to applaud you for providing this platform.…

HIV and ME: African LGBTI Women speak on HIV/Aids – Pt II

Afro Sexual Wisdom,Love & Relationships

HIV and ME: African LGBTI Women speak on HIV/Aids – Pt II

A moment ago we put out a call to start a conversation about how Afro-Queer Women understand, experience and deal…

Different Flavours, One Spoon: On being buddhist, a mother, queer, Zulu and much more

Love & Relationships

Different Flavours, One Spoon: On being buddhist, a mother, queer, Zulu and much more

By Zan “Buddhist?” *insert supporting raised eyebrow here* But isn't that for white people? Plus, don't they pray…

Pap Smear, Oh Dear!

Sex

Pap Smear, Oh Dear!

By Nadine/ @oldladypants Very few things embarrass me. In fact the last time I was embarrassed was when…

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