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Platonic Intimacy: Am I Just Trying to Marry My Homies?

Love & Relationships,Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

Platonic Intimacy: Am I Just Trying to Marry My Homies?

We are constantly having to navigate being friends with someone or being into them. But ever had a…

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt II

Gender & Identity

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt II

We shall keep saying that sexuality and gender are on a beautiful spectrum that we can slide back…

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt I

Gender & Identity

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt I

Sexuality is a spectrum and gender is a construct. Thems the facts. With that in mind there is…

Romantic vs Sexual Attraction: Marry, F**k or Both?

Love & Relationships

Romantic vs Sexual Attraction: Marry, F**k or Both?

Often in our dating or love lives folx confuse romantic and sexual attraction. There are many different types…

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Afro Sexual Wisdom,Queerly Spiritual, Queerly Cultural

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Coming out is possibly the worst thing that you could ever want to do. Ever. It is scary…

Sex Postivity: Is it All About Having Lots of Wild Sex? (Spoiler: No.)

Afro Sexual Politics,Afro Sexual Wisdom

Sex Postivity: Is it All About Having Lots of Wild Sex? (Spoiler: No.)

How should we all be having sex? Truth is none of us know, and all of us are…

Basically…Life – Ep. 18: The Basic Life of Ophelia: Long distance, bisexuality and dating dudes

Love & Relationships,Podcasts & Video

Basically…Life – Ep. 18: The Basic Life of Ophelia: Long distance, bisexuality and dating dudes

How does long distance help your relationship? Why do folx really not understand the B in LGBTIQ? Why…

Date Ideas: Intentionally Spending Time Together

Love & Relationships

Date Ideas: Intentionally Spending Time Together

Art by Oh Snap! It's Alexandra's Art. Dates are a part of intentional time together which is such…

Queer Imposter Syndrome: Am I Really Gay Enough?

Afro Sexual Politics,Afro Sexual Wisdom,Gender & Identity

Queer Imposter Syndrome: Am I Really Gay Enough?

Maybe sometimes you don’t quite feel queer enough. You might not be a gold star lesbian, or a…

On being a sexual poltergeist: Ways people are digitally ditching each other

Love & Relationships

On being a sexual poltergeist: Ways people are digitally ditching each other

Ghosting: (noun) the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from…

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