Author: HOLAA

Queer Imposter Syndrome: Am I Really Gay Enough?

Afro Sexual Politics,Afro Sexual Wisdom,Gender & Identity

Queer Imposter Syndrome: Am I Really Gay Enough?

Maybe sometimes you don’t quite feel queer enough. You might not be a gold star lesbian, or a…

On being a sexual poltergeist: Ways people are digitally ditching each other

Love & Relationships

On being a sexual poltergeist: Ways people are digitally ditching each other

Ghosting: (noun) the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from…

Basically…Life – Ep. 19: The Basic Universe: Hot Spots incl. self pleasure, the streets & sleeping with a bestie

HOLAA! in a Hot Spot,Podcasts & Video

Basically…Life – Ep. 19: The Basic Universe: Hot Spots incl. self pleasure, the streets & sleeping with a bestie

In this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around touching yourself, hitting on women…

Monogamy, Polyamory, and Open Lesbian Relationships

Love & Relationships,Sex

Monogamy, Polyamory, and Open Lesbian Relationships

Often times, we confuse polyamory with open relationships. Polyamory is being in multiple (intimate) romantic/sexual relationships, with consenting…

Queer Lockdown – Essential Workers

Politics & Lifestyle

Queer Lockdown – Essential Workers

By Tshegofatso Senne (@mbongomuffin), Illustrated by studiostudioworkwork LGBTQIA+ people have been particularly affected by the COVID-19 pandemic. In a…

Of allies and frenemies

Politics & Lifestyle

Of allies and frenemies

By NAS “My name is [Insert name], and I love you people…” This statement is always the first…

How to be an LGBTQ-ally

Politics & Lifestyle

How to be an LGBTQ-ally

These are some of the questions many 'baby allies' are burning to ask and, much as they are interesting, they…

Listen: Pillow princesses put in the work in bed: ‘we not just lying there in bed.’ (podcast)

Podcasts & Video

Listen: Pillow princesses put in the work in bed: ‘we not just lying there in bed.’ (podcast)

Noun. Pillow princess (plural pillow princesses) (slang) A person (typically a woman) who wants to receive sexual pleasure but is not…

Listen: Safely embracing ‘hoe is life’: on queerness and sexual knowledge

Podcasts & Video

Listen: Safely embracing ‘hoe is life’: on queerness and sexual knowledge

'It took me years to understand why this was the case, why, as grown folk, the thirst seemed…

The Wildness Ep 31: Sliding into the DMs- is the internet helping/hurting our sex, love and snaxing? (Keep safe)

Podcasts & Video

The Wildness Ep 31: Sliding into the DMs- is the internet helping/hurting our sex, love and snaxing? (Keep safe)

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Is Panda using lube? How are…