Revisiting the essay ‘Homosexuality is ‘unafrican’ in pre-colonial history’
By Cosmic Yoruba I wrote the essay, “Homosexuality is “unAfrican” in pre-colonial history” a couple of years ago. Thanks to HOLAA!,…
‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons
By Nnenna Marcia/ @NnennaMarcia. I’d never tried a strap-on before I met her, not being one for the introduction…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)
Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…
Staying in closet as a form of self care (Reblog)
By MaThokoTo a younger me – “Don’t come out, if you don’t want to” Coming out – the act…
Afro Sexual Wisdom,Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
#QueerSexIs: A fun, relatable bunch of tweets on queer sex.
What is queer sex? We went to the Twitter streets to find out what having sex within this…
Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
‘Doing supi’ or something else to be
By Dr. Anima Adjepong An image comes to mind: an empty field of green grass. In the horizon to…
Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help
Coming out is possibly the worst thing that you could ever want to do. Ever. It is scary…
How to be an LGBTQ-ally
These are some of the questions many 'baby allies' are burning to ask and, much as they are interesting, they…
All of the Things Women Do.
"What do women do in bed? Doesn't it get boring?’ Senseless questions that need a sensual answer. How can you not quiver when you think of all the things a woman can do? How can you not want to spend that extra moment of longing whilst you think and imagine of the tastes and sounds and visuals that come with two women clutching, writhing, moaning, scratching, bonding…coming.
All aboard the Virgin Struggle Bus: The intersection of virginity and queerness
By Hamda Lawal When I was 16, I made a covenant with God that I would remain a…