Sex and curiosity: The fantasy on the other side of straight.
By ‘A lover of women’ I had always found women intriguing. I did not necessarily see it as…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Activist, Kilifi or Celesbian?: A (Non-Exhaustive) List of Types of Lesbians/Queer Women
Hands up if you want to know what type of lesbian you are! Well we got you. As…
Things to Know When Using a Strap-on for the First Time (or Any Time)
The strap. Fun for all folx, men, women and GNC (gender-nonconforming) folx. Straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual and pansexual.…
Love & Relationships,Politics & Lifestyle
Exorcising the heteronormative ghost from Afropolitan futures
By Dr. Anima Adjepong Some time back, I was re-watching Nicole Amartefio’s creative show, An African City. The show follows…
Shame Is Not A Cure: So-called conversion ‘therapy’ practices in Kenya – A look at the GALCK+ report
Conversion Therapy. When people think about this phrase they often about some archaic practice that happened ages ago…
Revisiting the essay ‘Homosexuality is ‘unafrican’ in pre-colonial history’
By Cosmic Yoruba I wrote the essay, “Homosexuality is “unAfrican” in pre-colonial history” a couple of years ago. Thanks to HOLAA!,…
‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons
By Nnenna Marcia/ @NnennaMarcia. I’d never tried a strap-on before I met her, not being one for the introduction…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)
Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…
On the Business of Choosing Dears
By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire first…
Staying in closet as a form of self care (Reblog)
By MaThokoTo a younger me – “Don’t come out, if you don’t want to” Coming out – the act…