Tag: LGBT in Africa

‘Doing supi’ or something else to be

Love & Relationships

‘Doing supi’ or something else to be

By Anima Adjepong / @amankrado.  An image comes to mind: an empty field of green grass. In the horizon…

Reasons why a straight woman should never utter the words ‘Men suck, I’m about to go gay’

Afro Sexual Wisdom

Reasons why a straight woman should never utter the words ‘Men suck, I’m about to go gay’

*This post was updated to take out the problematic things that were in it. Thank you so much…

What is a lesbian?

Politics & Lifestyle

What is a lesbian?

‘What is lesbian now?’ With this phrase you feel the need to begin explaining to your grandmother about…

How is your 9 to 5 treating you: On being a professional homosexual (Re-post)

Politics & Lifestyle

How is your 9 to 5 treating you: On being a professional homosexual (Re-post)

By Kutlwano No one teaches us what the work environment will be like for homosexuals. In truth no…

iGay, iLesbian, iBisexual – Xhosalisation of English

Afro Sexual Wisdom

iGay, iLesbian, iBisexual – Xhosalisation of English

By Lwando Scott A few months ago I received an e-mail asking my advice about IsiXhosa equivalents of…

‘Reuniting with my lover’- Part I (Repost)

Sex

‘Reuniting with my lover’- Part I (Repost)

By Akosua It was night, and the fan was whirring loudly against the sound of insects outside my…

Tastes of a continent- when four women meet

Sex

Tastes of a continent- when four women meet

By Anonymous The Saturday afternoon catch up session led to Saturday night wine and leftovers affair.  I hadn’t seen…

Internal Musings of a partial-asexual during sex

Sex

Internal Musings of a partial-asexual during sex

By Ashes I do not enjoy penetrative sex but I have found that due to a weakness I…

Listen: So, I am masculine presenting, where is MY pleasure? (Podcast)

Podcasts & Video

Listen: So, I am masculine presenting, where is MY pleasure? (Podcast)

Why can I not be masculine presenting and squirt? Why does my dyke swag mean that I have…

‘Take a peek’: The pull of watching others have sex

Sex

‘Take a peek’: The pull of watching others have sex

By a Voyeur  Voyeurism (n.) the practice of obtaining sexual gratification by looking at sexual objects of acts,…