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Spread and snap: Looking at the art of sending (safeish) nudes

Afro Sexual Wisdom,Blog

Spread and snap: Looking at the art of sending (safeish) nudes

Love it or hate it: people are sending nudes on their cellphones. Studies have shown that 50% of…

Making a sex tape that won’t cause your life to implode: A Cheat Sheet

Afro Sexual Wisdom,Blog,Uncategorised

Making a sex tape that won’t cause your life to implode: A Cheat Sheet

Talk about making the tape: Before you are spread eagle and bringing out the phone and flash have…

Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep Pt I

Blog,Politics & Lifestyle

Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep Pt I

Trigger and content warning for graphic descriptions of deliberate manipulation, gaslighting, corporeal violence; self- harm; queer-antagonism, rape and…

Hide and Seek in You

Blog,Love & Relationships

Hide and Seek in You

By Khauhelo 'Mile Say this is the last time we meet in the night and from tomorrow I'll…

Sex positivity 101: It is not just about getting laid

Afro Sexual Wisdom,Blog

Sex positivity 101: It is not just about getting laid

When people hear the term “sex positivity”, they think it is about having sex with everyone all the…

Let It Rain: Pink Stains On White Kitchen Tiles

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Let It Rain: Pink Stains On White Kitchen Tiles

[Trigger and content warning for intimate partner violence in the form of gaslighting, prolonged infidelity and corporeal violence.]…

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Blog,Love & Relationships

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By Khauhelo 'Mile   I need a road that can lead me straight to you; my forbidden fruit.…

‘Dom or a sub’: Let’s unpack all power struggles shall we?

Blog,Love & Relationships

‘Dom or a sub’: Let’s unpack all power struggles shall we?

*Trigger warning: emotional abuse Queer sexual relationships have seemingly been divided into two broad and equally parallel spectrums:…

Cusp

Blog,Sex

Cusp

By OluTimehin “I‘m really just a good girl flirting with the dark side. I like how you shock…

Let It Rain: Crushed Tea – Leaves in My Water

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Let It Rain: Crushed Tea – Leaves in My Water

[Disclaimers: this story is not an endorsement of manipulative, abusive or dysfunctional behaviour. Suicide ideation disproportionately affects people…