Contracts, disappearing pics and other tips: How To Send Nudes Safely
By Nana Darkoa Every so often I like to post a semi risqué picture. Some of these would…
Spread and snap: Looking at the art of sending (safeish) nudes
Love it or hate it: people are sending nudes on their cellphones. Studies have shown that 50% of…
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Making a sex tape that won’t cause your life to implode: A Cheat Sheet
Talk about making the tape: Before you are spread eagle and bringing out the phone and flash have…
Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep Pt I
Trigger and content warning for graphic descriptions of deliberate manipulation, gaslighting, corporeal violence; self- harm; queer-antagonism, rape and…
Hide and Seek in You
By Khauhelo 'Mile Say this is the last time we meet in the night and from tomorrow I'll…
Sex positivity 101: It is not just about getting laid
When people hear the term “sex positivity”, they think it is about having sex with everyone all the…
Let It Rain: Pink Stains On White Kitchen Tiles
[Trigger and content warning for intimate partner violence in the form of gaslighting, prolonged infidelity and corporeal violence.]…
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By Khauhelo 'Mile I need a road that can lead me straight to you; my forbidden fruit.…
‘Dom or a sub’: Let’s unpack all power struggles shall we?
*Trigger warning: emotional abuse Queer sexual relationships have seemingly been divided into two broad and equally parallel spectrums:…
