Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep pt II
February 14th, 2012 “I’m so sorry for sending you back there, Leroy.” Khethiwe, my therapist, had a look…
Contracts, disappearing pics and other tips: How To Send Nudes Safely
By Nana Darkoa Every so often I like to post a semi risqué picture. Some of these would…
HOLAA’s Guide to Loving Yourself by Being Better
Life can be rough sometimes. And there can be a lot of sharp edges and hard times that…
The Wildness Ep 24: How to digitally send your bare a** safely(ish)
A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Where have the wild ones been?…
Heat within a headspace
By Anonymous The heat embed in through the open window, the sweltering Congolese day wrapped itself around the room…
Spread and snap: Looking at the art of sending (safeish) nudes
Love it or hate it: people are sending nudes on their cellphones. Studies have shown that 50% of…
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Making a sex tape that won’t cause your life to implode: A Cheat Sheet
Talk about making the tape: Before you are spread eagle and bringing out the phone and flash have…
Revenge porn factsheet (Posters)
Revenge Porn (n): A form of sexual assault that involves the sending or publishing of someone’s nude/sexually explicit…
Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep Pt I
Trigger and content warning for graphic descriptions of deliberate manipulation, gaslighting, corporeal violence; self- harm; queer-antagonism, rape and…
The Taste of Cherry
By Blank.Space. It was January when I met her. I noticed her as she stood by the bar,…