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Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep pt II

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Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep pt II

February 14th, 2012 “I’m so sorry for sending you back there, Leroy.” Khethiwe, my therapist, had a look…

Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep Pt I

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Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep Pt I

Trigger and content warning for graphic descriptions of deliberate manipulation, gaslighting, corporeal violence; self- harm; queer-antagonism, rape and…

The Hustle of Studs, Stemmes, and Femmes Part II: Studs

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The Hustle of Studs, Stemmes, and Femmes Part II: Studs

By Cisi Eze This one is for studs. Firstly, let me not that I have heard the difference…

Labels and Strap-ons: Questions from a Baby Dyke

Love & Relationships

Labels and Strap-ons: Questions from a Baby Dyke

Before I get into this post, quick detour. I have two new favorite things. The first is Arielle…

A letter to the off center masculine woman

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A letter to the off center masculine woman

Dear Stems, butches, bois, studs and those who are too amazing for a boxes, I guess I should start of…

Studs for studs and femmes for femmes, or everyone for everyone?

Afro Sexual Wisdom

Studs for studs and femmes for femmes, or everyone for everyone?

By Anonymous ‘Studs for studs’ and ‘femmes for femmes’. It would seem that the LGBTI labels we have…

“The Sexual Conquests of Toni Johnson: An Epiphany”

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“The Sexual Conquests of Toni Johnson: An Epiphany”

By 'Aimee' *Trigger Warning: Rape, Sexual Assault, Abuse  Part I Toni Johnson is a woman who makes no…