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Nyar Afrika: Mbona inatubidi kuzungumza kuhusu ubakaji wa kisagaji

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Nyar Afrika: Mbona inatubidi kuzungumza kuhusu ubakaji wa kisagaji

For the english click here. Kiwango kipi kinazidi? Jambo lipi linatokea anapokataa?  Nyote wawili mumejiandaa kwa siku hii;…

Queer Spaces are Not Inherently Safe Spaces

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Queer Spaces are Not Inherently Safe Spaces

1st December, 2018. I’m at a soiree to mark World AIDS day with my fellow queers. Music, dancing…

Let It Rain: Dead Snails on Daughter’s Windowsill Part II

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Let It Rain: Dead Snails on Daughter’s Windowsill Part II

[Content/Trigger Warning: death of a loved one and graphic description of sex] May 20th, 2019 “I don’t want…

Let It Rain: Dead Snails on Daughter’s Windowsill Part I

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Let It Rain: Dead Snails on Daughter’s Windowsill Part I

[Content/Trigger Warning: abuse trauma]   “How many really know what love is? Millions never will,” – Alicia Keys,…

Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep pt II

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Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep pt II

February 14th, 2012 “I’m so sorry for sending you back there, Leroy.” Khethiwe, my therapist, had a look…

Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep Pt I

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Let It Rain: Broken Porcelain on a Red Stoep Pt I

Trigger and content warning for graphic descriptions of deliberate manipulation, gaslighting, corporeal violence; self- harm; queer-antagonism, rape and…

Let It Rain: Pink Stains On White Kitchen Tiles

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Let It Rain: Pink Stains On White Kitchen Tiles

[Trigger and content warning for intimate partner violence in the form of gaslighting, prolonged infidelity and corporeal violence.]…

Let It Rain: Crushed Tea – Leaves in My Water

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Let It Rain: Crushed Tea – Leaves in My Water

[Disclaimers: this story is not an endorsement of manipulative, abusive or dysfunctional behaviour. Suicide ideation disproportionately affects people…

A Story of a Fuck Off Fund

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A Story of a Fuck Off Fund

You’re telling your own story: You graduated college and you’re a grown-ass woman now. Tina Fey is your…

Mnemophobia

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Mnemophobia

By Chediac Higashi Mnemophobia: The fear of memories Alice swam out of sleep. That’s what it felt like when she…