Category: Love & Relationships

Different Flavours, One Spoon: On being buddhist, a mother, queer, Zulu and much more

Love & Relationships

Different Flavours, One Spoon: On being buddhist, a mother, queer, Zulu and much more

By Zan “Buddhist?” *insert supporting raised eyebrow here* But isn't that for white people? Plus, don't they pray…

HIV and ME: African LGBTI Women speak on HIV/Aids- Pt I

Love & Relationships

HIV and ME: African LGBTI Women speak on HIV/Aids- Pt I

A moment ago we put out a call to start a conversation about how Afro-Queer Women understand, experience…

The Wildness Ep 27: ‘Just SAY my booty is popping’: Is saying ‘girl crush’ problematic?

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The Wildness Ep 27: ‘Just SAY my booty is popping’: Is saying ‘girl crush’ problematic?

A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. ‘A girl crush is a non-sexual,…

Queers are sleeping around: same-sex relationship myths

Love & Relationships

Queers are sleeping around: same-sex relationship myths

You've been hanging around for 8 years now. Don't you have somewhere to be...? This is the not-so-funny-joke…

Getting over exes: On finding unexpected closure

Love & Relationships

Getting over exes: On finding unexpected closure

08:28 pm I'm listening to perfect strangers by Lil Wayne as I write this and all I am…

Hide and Seek in You

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Hide and Seek in You

By Khauhelo 'Mile Say this is the last time we meet in the night and from tomorrow I'll…

25

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25

By Khauhelo 'Mile   I need a road that can lead me straight to you; my forbidden fruit.…

‘Dom or a sub’: Let’s unpack all power struggles shall we?

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‘Dom or a sub’: Let’s unpack all power struggles shall we?

*Trigger warning: emotional abuse Queer sexual relationships have seemingly been divided into two broad and equally parallel spectrums:…

Let It Rain: Crushed Tea – Leaves in My Water

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Let It Rain: Crushed Tea – Leaves in My Water

[Disclaimers: this story is not an endorsement of manipulative, abusive or dysfunctional behaviour. Suicide ideation disproportionately affects people…

Nyumbani

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Nyumbani

By Neema The moonlight was just right against the ocean, My baby was right next to me. We…