‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons
By Nnenna Marcia/ @NnennaMarcia. I’d never tried a strap-on before I met her, not being one for the introduction…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)
Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…
Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love
The Clitoris: Dope Facts You Should Know
Oh we do love the clit. The clitoris is an erogenous zone located in the vulva. It is…
Sub, Munch and Consent: Kink Terms To Get You Started
Over the years more and more folx have become interested in kink so we at HOLAA! decided to…
Afro Sexual Wisdom,Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
#QueerSexIs: A fun, relatable bunch of tweets on queer sex.
What is queer sex? We went to the Twitter streets to find out what having sex within this…
Love & Relationships,Sex, Relationships & Love
Speaking about sex isn’t easy, but it’s worth it
Bringing uncomfortable things up is uncomfortable. Be it that colleague who keeps stealing your lunch, your friend whose…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Selecting Sex Toys: The Basics
The first time I used a toy with a partner was an interesting time. He decided to name…
Hey You (Reblog)
By Nnenna Marcia I knew when I saw you across the lobby that I wanted to taste your…
Love & Relationships,Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Platonic Intimacy: Am I Just Trying to Marry My Homies?
We are constantly having to navigate being friends with someone or being into them. But ever had a…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
In Defense of Orgasms Faked
By Mélisande Deschenel I believe in fake orgasms. I believe in them for the greater good of the…