Masculinity and Femininity: when pink panties don’t match your tuxedo
By Thamsanqa Scaps Zulu People who don’t understand the word ‘lesbian’ will assume I’m a man trapped in…
Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
On being a gender outsider
By Sté The more I grow up, the less I feel... womanly. It can be a bit of…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)
Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…
On the Business of Choosing Dears
By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire first…
Staying in closet as a form of self care (Reblog)
By MaThokoTo a younger me – “Don’t come out, if you don’t want to” Coming out – the act…
Queers are sleeping around: same-sex relationship myths
Art by Oh Snap! It’s Alexandra’s Art. Anonymous Kikuyu Queer You've been hanging around for 8 years now. Don't…
Hey You (Reblog)
By Nnenna Marcia I knew when I saw you across the lobby that I wanted to taste your…
Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
‘Doing supi’ or something else to be
By Dr. Anima Adjepong An image comes to mind: an empty field of green grass. In the horizon to…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
In Defense of Orgasms Faked
By Mélisande Deschenel I believe in fake orgasms. I believe in them for the greater good of the…
Love & Relationships,Sex, Relationships & Love
‘Exquisite pussies and heavenly dildos’(Reblog)
Art by Oh Snap! It's Alexandra's Art. By Amae It’s Friday night. I’ve been waiting for this all…