Breaking Down Codependency in Relationships
By Zak M What exactly is codependency? The term refers to a pattern of dependence in relationships wherein…
Queerly Spiritual, Queerly Cultural
I am a Queer Muslim, and I am valid
By Zak M I have always had a complex relationship with my religious identity, and exploring my queerness…
Safely embracing ‘Hoe is life’: On queerness and sexual knowledge.
There have been times when I wondered why being queer felt, socially, like a hot mess. Sure, there…
Twisted Threesome
Written by Naomi Despite Kewa being the hottest woman alive, she also got on my nerves a lot.…
Not all queers want to be queens: The dominant to precarious queer spectrum
By Kneo Mokgopa There are straight women who entertain and accessorise themselves with eccentric and loud gay men…
The bruised silence of queer women
By Carl Collinson What sustains it? Fear. Being afraid to be alone and the idea of not having…
iGay, iLesbian, iBisexual – Xhosalisation of English
By Lwando Scott A few months ago I received an e-mail asking my advice about IsiXhosa equivalents of…
Owning my sex, even after the abuse
By Marygrace TW: sexual abuse/assault Two months after the abuse stopped, I needed to get back in the…
On the Business of Choosing Dears
By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire first…
A request from a victim of queer domestic violence
By Nyx McLean/@NyxMcLean Can we please start to talk about domestic violence in queer relationships? It happens within…