On Gender Roles: “Sister, Who Is the Girl in Your Relationship?”
Helen’s right eye twitched when Amaka rushed ahead of her to open the restaurant door. It twitched some…
Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love
Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)
Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis, hers)…and I actually agree…
Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love
The Clitoris: Dope Facts You Should Know
Oh we do love the clit. The clitoris is an erogenous zone located in the vulva. It is…
Sub, Munch and Consent: Kink Terms To Get You Started
Over the years more and more folx have become interested in kink so we at HOLAA! decided to…
Sexting Etiquette 101: How to Send Your Juicy Bits Digitally and Safely
Notification comes up. It’s a new photo from bae. It is also past midnight, so you know this…
Staying in closet as a form of self care (Reblog)
By MaThokoTo a younger me – “Don’t come out, if you don’t want to” Coming out – the act…
Podcasts & Video,Politics & Lifestyle
Basically…Life – Ep. 16: The Basic Life of Siya: You Have to be Gay to Know God, dinner party talk and Only Fans
In this one we sit down with the incredible mind that is Siya Khumalo and answer: What happens…
Afro Sexual Politics,Afro Sexual Wisdom
Put Some Respec’ on It: Navigating the World of Pronouns
The world is a lovely and colourful place with such diversity like gender and gender expression. Understanding how…
Queers are sleeping around: same-sex relationship myths
Art by Oh Snap! It’s Alexandra’s Art. Anonymous Kikuyu Queer You've been hanging around for 8 years now. Don't…
Love & Relationships,Podcasts & Video
Basically…Life – Ep. 22: The Basic Universe – Hot Spots incl low libidos, sending nudes & skills in bed
In this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around low libidos, sending nudes &…