Fat Gurl Culture – the truth about being a black fat femme
By Ntombi’Zodidi Mazana I want to start off by saying this - I use the word “gurl” instead…
Non-monogamy: Relationship anarchy, polycule and other things you should know.
When people think about non-monogamy a whole bunch of things tend to come up. Some people think it’s…
Basically…Life – Ep. 30: The Basic Life of Eliana – Sugar daddy energy, the dirty thirties and dating in Mozambique
In this episode we get to sit down with this beauty form Mozambique to chat about dating, having…
Revisiting the essay ‘Homosexuality is ‘unafrican’ in pre-colonial history’
By Cosmic Yoruba I wrote the essay, “Homosexuality is “unAfrican” in pre-colonial history” a couple of years ago. Thanks to HOLAA!,…
Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love
So, Are You Straight or Nah?: Understanding Heteronormativity
Sometimes in polite conversation you gotta use ten dollar words in a three dollar conversation a.k.a. you gotta…
Basically… Life – Ep. 27: The Basic Life Of Astrid – Tenderness in teaching rope, head strokes and blood moon dates.
In this episode we sit down with shibari/ rope practironer Astrid to chat about everyting from figuring out…
‘I thought she wanted me to be a man’: getting into the world of strap-ons
By Nnenna Marcia/ @NnennaMarcia. I’d never tried a strap-on before I met her, not being one for the introduction…
Basically…Life – Ep. 26: The Basic Life of Kgothatso – Casual dating, being a s*x coach & loving your friends deeply
Why are friendships so important? How do you navigate casual dating after years of being in serious relationships?…
Masculinity and Femininity: when pink panties don’t match your tuxedo
By Thamsanqa Scaps Zulu People who don’t understand the word ‘lesbian’ will assume I’m a man trapped in…
Gender & Identity,Politics & Lifestyle
On being a gender outsider
By Sté The more I grow up, the less I feel... womanly. It can be a bit of…