Afro Sexual Politics,Afro Sexual Wisdom,Gender & Identity
Queer Imposter Syndrome: Am I Really Gay Enough?
Maybe sometimes you don’t quite feel queer enough. You might not be a gold star lesbian, or a…
Pre – Colonial Igboland: On Woman to Woman Marriage (Repost)
By Cosmic Yoruba Nwando Achebe writes that “woman-to-woman marriage in Africa has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality” (emphasis,…
Learning To Train Surf
By Kneo Mokgopa What I've found most liberating, most frustrating and most interesting in discovering queer theory and…
Listen: Safely embracing ‘hoe is life’: on queerness and sexual knowledge
'It took me years to understand why this was the case, why, as grown folk, the thirst seemed…
So, I Let a Guy Fuck Me
By Dyke Road/@dykeroadbaby So I let a guy fuck me. It wasn't cloth-ripping or somewhat perverted. It wasn't hot in…
Afro Sexual Wisdom,Love & Relationships
HIV and ME: African LGBTI Women speak on HIV/Aids – Pt II
A moment ago we put out a call to start a conversation about how Afro-Queer Women understand, experience and deal…
Heat within a headspace
By Anonymous The heat embed in through the open window, the sweltering Congolese day wrapped itself around the room…
Deliver us from pleasure: An Experience of the Jesus wedge
By Dykeroad I had been introduced to- and promptly started chatting up- this young woman. My jokes were…
On the Business of Choosing Dears
By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire…
One Night Stands
By Alexis Teyie/ @alexteyie Somehow I had convinced myself that one night stands must be life-affirming. That they were…