Tag: heteronormativity

I am not a Victim but a Victor

Afro Sexual Wisdom,Love & Relationships

I am not a Victim but a Victor

by Lungile Dladla They call February the month of love, I call it the month of change… In…

The (Wo)menstrual Cycle

Politics & Lifestyle

The (Wo)menstrual Cycle

By Mantis I was born female. At 3.46kg I was said to be normal and able to live…

What ‘team’ do I play for? Doesn’t matter. I play to win.

Politics & Lifestyle

What ‘team’ do I play for? Doesn’t matter. I play to win.

By Kagure ‘A dude can do more than she can. A dude can give you head plus the…

The Complexity of Sexuality

Love & Relationships

The Complexity of Sexuality

By Dee Close Last night I argued about sexuality, or rather the complexity of sexuality. Trying to put…

The Reality of Insanity

Politics & Lifestyle

The Reality of Insanity

By Kagure I witnessed fear. Not the heart pounding gut wrenching, ‘the serial killer is inside the house’…

Lesbian Manners

Afro Sexual Wisdom

Lesbian Manners

By Lame Living in a world where you are always considered the “other” is a constant denial of…

Double the Goodness, Double the Taste (musings of a bisexual)

Politics & Lifestyle

Double the Goodness, Double the Taste (musings of a bisexual)

By Kagure Stop knocking bi girls. The arguments against us are nonsense. For one we are often more…

Did you create me? (The one who did knows I’m gay)

Politics & Lifestyle

Did you create me? (The one who did knows I’m gay)

By Kagure I am fearfully and wonderfully made. That is why you fear me and cannot understand how…

We’re all family

Politics & Lifestyle

We’re all family

By RobotmonkeyA++ Recently, I spent some time with my entire extended family for the first time in more…

The Final Frontier

Love & Relationships

The Final Frontier

By Tiffany Humanity is about pushing boundaries. We are naturally disposed to go from frontier to frontier...new discovery…