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PT II: Burden of proof with sexual violence: About proving that they hurt you

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PT II: Burden of proof with sexual violence: About proving that they hurt you

TW: Sexual assault Read Pt I here and Part III here. By Sistaseeker Domestic violence that many women are…

Pt I: ‘I lay on my back and gave up’: On losing control of your bodily autonomy

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Pt I: ‘I lay on my back and gave up’: On losing control of your bodily autonomy

TW: Sexual assault, suicide Find post II here and post III here. By Sistaseeker It’s hard to imagine that…

HOLAA Loves: Beneath The Same Silence- A performance piece on intimate partner violence in a queer woman’s relationship

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HOLAA Loves: Beneath The Same Silence- A performance piece on intimate partner violence in a queer woman’s relationship

Can a woman really abuse another woman? Can't you just...fight it out? Intimate partner violence is not something…

In the Absence of Accountability: Creating the space to speak on women on women sexual violence

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In the Absence of Accountability: Creating the space to speak on women on women sexual violence

By SuperNova Trigger warning: Sexual assault As I explored in my previous post after my sexual assault i was…

An open letter to the girl who will be a “new catch” to my abusive ex girlfriend

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An open letter to the girl who will be a “new catch” to my abusive ex girlfriend

Trigger Warning: physical abuse* Dear beautiful stranger, It's weird that I am reaching out to you, a person…

‘At least she did not hit me’

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‘At least she did not hit me’

By Ekuba *Trigger Warning: physical and emotional abuse* It’s Easter Sunday and I’m not nestled into my partner’s…

How to support someone you care about who is in an abusive relationship

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How to support someone you care about who is in an abusive relationship

A few of us have been here before, either in abusive relationships or as friends bearing witness to…

What happens when you miss your abuser?

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What happens when you miss your abuser?

The first time I told someone I missed someone who had gaslighted me (gas lighting: a form of…

In the Absence of Accountability: A queer woman’s rape in feminist spaces

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In the Absence of Accountability: A queer woman’s rape in feminist spaces

By SuperNova Trigger warning: Sexual assault I imagined that what tied us together was more than just friendship. I…

Why are we silent about lesbian rape?

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Why are we silent about lesbian rape?

By Hejin Trigger warning: sexual assault, rape We think about sexual violence not only in a very binary…