Making it through another day: HOLAA’s guide to self care and self love
As women have been taught to put their needs aside and take care of everyone else around us.…
Que faire lorsque que votre bourreau vous manque ?
Par Mathoko For the English version click here La première fois que j’ai avoué à quelqu’un que la…
Comment soutenir quelqu’un qui est dans une relation abusive
Pour certaines d’entre nous, les relations abusives sont très familières: soit nous en avons été victimes, soit nous…
#PleaseHerNamibia: A safe sex and pleasure conversation in Windhoek
We got to have a great time in Namibia doing some mini workshops and one of the things…
PT II: Burden of proof with sexual violence: About proving that they hurt you
TW: Sexual assault Read Pt I here and Part III here. By Sistaseeker Domestic violence that many women are…
Black Lesbian characters in South African Popular-Culture
Part of my Queer journey was looking for representations of myself. I guess in a way it was…
#QueeringTheCloak: Twitter Conversation
We had an online conversation about abuse including sexual, emotional and physical abuse. The idea was to have…
#QueeringTheCloak: An Explanation of The Project
There is a resounding silence around abuse within the queer community. With issues of the community being small,…
‘At least she did not hit me’
By Ekuba *Trigger Warning: physical and emotional abuse* It’s Easter Sunday and I’m not nestled into my partner’s…
How to support someone you care about who is in an abusive relationship
A few of us have been here before, either in abusive relationships or as friends bearing witness to…