My Penguin Wasn’t My Penguin
By Dolly M Each one of use vibrates at a certain frequency so we tend to attract what…
Great kinky sex is just three magic words away: Conversation, consideration, consent
When people think of bondage, domination, sadism and masochism (BDSM), they either have visions of 50 Shades of Grey or…
Curiosity not (always) condemnation: On the freeing potential of queerness
By Anima Adjepong In my last essay, I discussed a comment I overheard from a Ghanaian woman who…
A Story of a Fuck Off Fund
You’re telling your own story: You graduated college and you’re a grown-ass woman now. Tina Fey is your…
HOLAA in a Hot Spot: Advice on giving head to an ex, trouble with sex and how crushing on a roomate being a bad idea (Video)
HOLAA in a Hot Spot. Answering all your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.' To submit…
I Should Have Known Earlier I Was Gay
By Rapunzel for Kenyan BabyDyke blog Heteronormativity sucks, doesn’t it? It feels nice to put a finger on…
Sex Toys and Self Love
By Cosmic Yoruba When I was 17 years old, I reached an epiphany and decided that I would…
The myth of vagina invincibility puts women who have sex with women at sexual risk
HOLAA developed a safe sex and pleasure manual. Download the whole thing here. How do two women have…
في ظل غياب المساءلة (In the absence of accountability)
For the English please click here. Translation by Sahrwardy لقد اعتقدت أن العلاقات التي تربطنا كانت أكثر من صداقة،…
How is your 9 to 5 treating you: On being a professional homosexual (Re-post)
By Kutlwano No one teaches us what the work environment will be like for homosexuals. In truth no…