Don’t call me pretty: A STEM coming out story
By Dolly I don’t go to bars anymore. Technically, I don’t go to straight bars anymore but there’s…
Pimping out my bisexuality: Confessions of tired brown bisexual
By a Tired Brown Bi Woman I have felt compelled to write this after I have heard the…
Why is it OK to be naked in porn but not protest?
By Kagure Mugo As a society we love naked women. We use female bodies to sell everything, from…
The hidden ‘family’ truths – part two
*Trigger warning: Rape, sexual assault, child abuse By Lindiwe Dhlamini This is the longest article in the ‘Still…
Homosexuality is “unAfrican” in pre-colonial history (Essay)
By Cosmic Yoruba Such a thing did not exist in the African jungle...or not When I read a…
HOLAA loves: Hope and Cathy
Sometimes we are nosy and want a peek into the relationships and lives of others. So we asked…
He’s ‘a good guy’ – and other excuses we make for abusers
‘He can’t have hit Amber Heard: Pirates of the Caribbean was awesome, and he [Johnny Depp] is a…
Sex toys and Self love (Podcast)
Sometimes we think hearing someone read things is awesome, so we asked someone to read this post in…
Dreams come true: On pain and mistrust
By Pamela Adie/@biwomdz I sat on her bed, right next to her. She was crying while holding my…
Giving into my first love
By Nana Yaa Amponsah Sometimes, in the race of life, we meet certain people who we think mean…