Great kinky sex is just three magic words away: Conversation, consideration, consent
When people think of bondage, domination, sadism and masochism (BDSM), they either have visions of 50 Shades of Grey or…
The Hustle of Studs, Stemmes, and Femmes Part I: Femmes
By Cisi Eze If you are reading this, I assume you know what these words – stud, stemme,…
HOLAA Loves: Sarah Waiswa: A Good African Child, Creating for Yourself and the Juice
Sitting across the graceful, majestic-in-height and simply stunning award-winning photographer Sarah Waiswa is recharging the self. As an…
Consent
Disclaimer: Littered with triggers. In South Africa, the continuous occurrences of rape and sexual assaults are impossible to…
Curiosity not (always) condemnation: On the freeing potential of queerness
By Anima Adjepong In my last essay, I discussed a comment I overheard from a Ghanaian woman who…
Love & Relationships,Podcasts & Video
Listen: Why is dick such a hazy memory? And other wildness with sister seeker and Amanda? (Podcast)
So sometimes our podcasts are simply what they need to be at any given time. They are wild,…
Too Little, Too Late
By Essy “I am leaving.” I stood still staring straight into her eyes. “Why?” I asked her. She…