Month: Jul 2017

Small Truths

Love & Relationships

Small Truths

By Eyebags and Melanin I have stayed with myself longer than I have with anyone else. Longer than…

Shani: Moving on and moving in

Love & Relationships

Shani: Moving on and moving in

By Anonymous Kenyan Tuesday 23rd August I was having a breakfast with aunt Wacuka and Tamara. My two…

Shani: A reunion of lovers? or friends?

Love & Relationships

Shani: A reunion of lovers? or friends?

By Anonymous Kenyan Saturday Aug 20th It had been one year, seven months since we last saw each…

HOLAA Loves: Healing To Fight The Good Fight

Afro Sexual Wisdom

HOLAA Loves: Healing To Fight The Good Fight

Fighting the good fight can be tiring, it can be grueling and it can sometimes be downright awful.…

What happens when you miss your abuser?

Love & Relationships

What happens when you miss your abuser?

The first time I told someone I missed someone who had gaslighted me (gas lighting: a form of…

Listen: Sex as a bigger woman: A conversation with Bongi (Podcast)

Podcasts & Video

Listen: Sex as a bigger woman: A conversation with Bongi (Podcast)

Bodies come in different sizes and shapes and can do so many amazing things. Problem is we have…

Can we imagine an African Pride?

Politics & Lifestyle

Can we imagine an African Pride?

By Kagure June was LGBTIQ+ Pride Month, a time when the rainbow peace flag is flown and members of…

#PleaseHerUganda: Discussing sex and pleasure in a Feminist Utopia

Events

#PleaseHerUganda: Discussing sex and pleasure in a Feminist Utopia

Uganda was where life was happening this time around! We managed to come together with FitClique and hold our…

9 Types Of Lesbians It Sucks To Have Sex With

Sex

9 Types Of Lesbians It Sucks To Have Sex With

KitschMix Reblog *We love KitschMix, please please please check out this site* Relationships end for all kinds of…

Does my sex drive scare you?

Sex

Does my sex drive scare you?

By Hamda Lawal I do not really consider myself as someone that has a high sex drive. I…