‘Dom or a sub’: Let’s unpack all power struggles shall we?
*Trigger warning: emotional abuse Queer sexual relationships have seemingly been divided into two broad and equally parallel spectrums:…
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Let It Rain: Crushed Tea – Leaves in My Water
[Disclaimers: this story is not an endorsement of manipulative, abusive or dysfunctional behaviour. Suicide ideation disproportionately affects people…
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Listen: Querying the cloak, Queering the solution: Dealing with violence and abuse in our own feminist spaces (podcast)
Amanda read her piece for us on intimate partner violence in queer spaces which you can read here.…
A request from a victim of queer domestic violence
By Nyx McLean/@NyxMcLean Can we please start to talk about domestic violence in lesbian and queer relationships? It…
Listen: How To Support Someone You Care About Who Is In An Abusive Relationship (Podcast)
A few of us have been here before, either in abusive relationships or as friends bearing witness to…
ماذا يحدث عندما تفتقدين من أساءت إليكي؟ (What happens when you miss your abuser)
For the English version click here. أول مرة تحدثت فيها لشخص وقلت إنني أفتقد شخصا ضللني ،سقط بي…
A Story of a Fuck Off Fund
You’re telling your own story: You graduated college and you’re a grown-ass woman now. Tina Fey is your…
في ظل غياب المساءلة (In the absence of accountability)
For the English please click here. Translation by Sahrwardy لقد اعتقدت أن العلاقات التي تربطنا كانت أكثر من صداقة،…
Cheeky Natives reviews: If I Stay Right Here by Chwayita Ngamlana
Toni Morrison says "If there is a book that you want to read, but it hasn't been written…
Querying the cloak, Queering the solution: Dealing with violence and abuse in our own feminist spaces
Energy is a powerful fucking thing. Your thoughts are a powerful fucking thing. Whatever you spend both on…