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What Happens When You Miss Your Abuser?

Politics & Lifestyle

What Happens When You Miss Your Abuser?

TW: Abuse The first time I told someone I missed someone who had gaslighted me (gas lighting: a…

HOLAA in a Hot Spot: Exposing poly tendencies, STIs and cheating and potentially being HIV+

HOLAA! in a Hot Spot

HOLAA in a Hot Spot: Exposing poly tendencies, STIs and cheating and potentially being HIV+

'HOLAA in a Hot Spot. Answering all your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.' To submit…

HOLAA in a Hot Spot: figuring out ‘the sex things’, wanting to hook up with a room mate and being queer in Kenya

HOLAA! in a Hot Spot

HOLAA in a Hot Spot: figuring out ‘the sex things’, wanting to hook up with a room mate and being queer in Kenya

'HOLAA in a Hot Spot. Answering all your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.' To submit…

HOLAA in a Hot Spot: Advice on loving an older women in Accra, cheating with d**k and being sex starved.

HOLAA! in a Hot Spot

HOLAA in a Hot Spot: Advice on loving an older women in Accra, cheating with d**k and being sex starved.

'HOLAA in a Hot Spot. Answering all your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.' To submit…

HOLAA in a Hot Spot: Advice on breaking up, polygamous lies and being over sex

HOLAA! in a Hot Spot

HOLAA in a Hot Spot: Advice on breaking up, polygamous lies and being over sex

'HOLAA in a Hot Spot. Answering all your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.' To submit…

Staying in the closet as self care

Afro Sexual Wisdom

Staying in the closet as self care

To a younger me – “Don’t come out, if you don’t want to” Coming out – the act of…

What happens when you miss your abuser?

Love & Relationships

What happens when you miss your abuser?

The first time I told someone I missed someone who had gaslighted me (gas lighting: a form of…