I am a homosexual with homophobic tendencies. I hate the fact that I am queer. I am a Christian and I do not believe in these things and I think I need help to deal with it. I have tried prayer and dating men but nothing works. What must I do?
Queer and hating it, Kenya
Dear HOLAA hot spot,
I want to be spanked in bed. I brought it up to my partner and they seemed freaked out. I know spanking is just the beginning if what I want but now I am scared to ask for anything else. Problem is I feel like I need these things and I don’t know how long I will be able to hold out. What should I do? Should I cheat.
No Beaten Bums, Uganda
Hello HOLAA hot spot person,
I have a friend who I have such serious feelings for but she doesn’t even know that I like girls. I can feel myself about to do something intense and possibly stupid soon. Should I tell her and risk our friendship? Should what should I do?