HOLAA! in a Hot Spot

Listen: HOLAA in a Hot spot: having a crush on a homie, getting spanked and being homophobic

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On Jun 19, 2018

‘HOLAA in a Hot Spot. Answering all your burning questions so life doesn’t show you flames.’ To submit your question click here.

How do you deal with homophobic tendancies whilst being queer? How do you ask to be spanked in bed? How do you deal with having feelings for your friend?

Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by  tackling these questions on this episode of The Wildness,  answering your burning questions so life doesn’t show you flames.

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HOLAA person,

I am a homosexual with homophobic tendencies. I hate the fact that I am queer. I am a Christian and I do not believe in these things and I think I need help to deal with it. I have tried prayer and dating men but nothing works. What must I do?

Queer and hating it, Kenya


Dear HOLAA hot spot,

I want to be spanked in bed. I brought it up to my partner and they seemed freaked out. I know spanking is just the beginning if what I want but now I am scared to ask for anything else. Problem is I feel like I need these things and I don’t know how long I will be able to hold out. What should I do? Should I cheat.

No Beaten Bums, Uganda


Hello HOLAA hot spot person,

I have a friend who I have such serious feelings for but she doesn’t even know that I like girls. I can feel myself about to do something intense and possibly stupid soon. Should I tell her and risk our friendship? Should what should I do?

Feeling my friend, Zimbabwe