Posted By Basically...Life
On Jul 16, 2018
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Should you hide you poly lifestyle from my new squeeze? What do you do if your partner knows new things in bed without learning them with you? What do I do when my girlfriend sexually hurts me?
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Hello Hot Spot person,
I recently met a woman who I like but I do not think she will be open to my poly lifestyle. I want to bring it up to her but I think she won’t appreciate it, or appreciate that I already have a girlfriend. Should I just keep it under wraps or should I chance telling her and lose her?
Low key poly, South Africa
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Dear HOLAA in a Hot Spot sexpert,
My partner tried something new in bed and I am wondering where she learned it because I do not remember us learning that together. She also was very good at it so where did she practice? Is she cheating on me?
Confused about her skills, Botswana
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Hey HOLAA in a Hot spot,
Sex with my girlfriend is scaring me. Every time we have sex either I do not enjoy it or do not want it at all. What makes it very scary is when she doesn’t listen to me saying no and carries on anyway then asks me if I enjoyed it. It’s getting to a point where I am afraid when she touches me, even none sexually. How do I tell her she’s hurting me?
Scared sexually, Nigeria