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All aboard the Virgin Struggle Bus: The intersection of virginity and queerness

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All aboard the Virgin Struggle Bus: The intersection of virginity and queerness

By Hamda Lawal When I was 16, I made a convenant with God that I would remain a…

Let It Rain: Crushed Tea – Leaves in My Water

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Let It Rain: Crushed Tea – Leaves in My Water

[Disclaimers: this story is not an endorsement of manipulative, abusive or dysfunctional behaviour. Suicide ideation disproportionately affects people…

On the Business of Choosing Dears

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On the Business of Choosing Dears

By Kuukua Dzigbordi Yomekpe     It started when she claimed me as her 'Dear' from among the entire…

My Igbo Spice

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My Igbo Spice

By Efua I doubt I’d had that much sex in my life. I doubt I know myself fully.…

Polyamory: A beginners guide

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Polyamory: A beginners guide

When I was in high school, there was a time I was dating three people at once. All…

‘Doing supi’ or something else to be

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‘Doing supi’ or something else to be

By Anima Adjepong / @amankrado.  An image comes to mind: an empty field of green grass. In the horizon…

Tomorrow will be different but today I don’t feel like it

Love & Relationships

Tomorrow will be different but today I don’t feel like it

By Amanda Hodgeson Monogamy: One partner for one partner. Polygamy: One husband, all the wives he can count,…

A request from a victim of queer domestic violence

Love & Relationships

A request from a victim of queer domestic violence

By Nyx McLean/@NyxMcLean Can we please start to talk about domestic violence in lesbian and queer relationships? It…

Reasons why a straight woman should never utter the words ‘Men suck, I’m about to go gay’

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Reasons why a straight woman should never utter the words ‘Men suck, I’m about to go gay’

*This post was updated to take out the problematic things that were in it. Thank you so much…

My Penguin Wasn’t My Penguin

Love & Relationships

My Penguin Wasn’t My Penguin

By Dolly M Each one of use vibrates at a certain frequency so we tend to attract what…

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