Tag: femme

Whats in a dress?: Queer Femininity as Political

Politics & Lifestyle

Whats in a dress?: Queer Femininity as Political

What’s in a dress? In our case as queer womxn and non-binary folx a lot. Whether intentional or…

RIDDLE: LBGTQI (S)?

Politics & Lifestyle

RIDDLE: LBGTQI (S)?

By Tatenda  Not Lesbian: I’m attracted to and desire women, but not exclusively. Not Heterosexual: I date men, but not…

Whats in a dress?: Queer Femininity as Political

Politics & Lifestyle

Whats in a dress?: Queer Femininity as Political

What’s in a dress? In our case as queer womxn and non-binary folx a lot. Whether intentional or…

Fat Gurl Culture – the truth about being a black fat femme.

Politics & Lifestyle

Fat Gurl Culture – the truth about being a black fat femme.

By Ntombi’Zodidi Mazana I want to start off by saying this - I use the word “gurl” instead…

The Hustle of Studs, Stemmes, and Femmes Part I: Femmes

Afro Sexual Wisdom

The Hustle of Studs, Stemmes, and Femmes Part I: Femmes

By Cisi Eze If you are reading this, I assume you know what these words – stud, stemme,…

Let’s Talk About Femmes

Politics & Lifestyle

Let’s Talk About Femmes

In this post, some of the sexualities I mention may be yours or they might not. Some of…

Labels and Strap-ons: Questions from a Baby Dyke

Love & Relationships

Labels and Strap-ons: Questions from a Baby Dyke

Before I get into this post, quick detour. I have two new favorite things. The first is Arielle…

Don’t call me pretty: A STEM coming out story

Politics & Lifestyle

Don’t call me pretty: A STEM coming out story

By Dolly I don’t go to bars anymore. Technically, I don’t go to straight bars anymore but there’s…

Masculinity and Femininity: when pink panties don’t match your tuxedo

Afro Sexual Wisdom

Masculinity and Femininity: when pink panties don’t match your tuxedo

By Thamsanqa Scaps Zulu People who don’t understand the word ‘Lesbian’ will assume I’m a man trapped in…

Thinking Beyond Sexual Identity pt I: A look at being a gold star gay and biphobia

Politics & Lifestyle

Thinking Beyond Sexual Identity pt I: A look at being a gold star gay and biphobia

By Mammu / @mammumay Who is this fucktard? This naïve newbie. I know, I know. It sounds so…