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Speaking about sex isn’t easy, but it’s worth it

Love & Relationships,Sex, Relationships & Love

Speaking about sex isn’t easy, but it’s worth it

Bringing uncomfortable things up is uncomfortable. Be it that colleague who keeps stealing your lunch, your friend whose…

Hey You (Reblog)

Sex, Relationships & Love

Hey You (Reblog)

By Nnenna Marcia I knew when I saw you across the lobby that I wanted to taste your…

In Defense of Orgasms Faked

Politics & Lifestyle,Sex, Relationships & Love

In Defense of Orgasms Faked

By Mélisande Deschenel I believe in fake orgasms. I believe in them for the greater good of the…

‘Exquisite pussies and heavenly dildos’(Reblog)

Love & Relationships,Sex, Relationships & Love

‘Exquisite pussies and heavenly dildos’(Reblog)

Art by Oh Snap! It's Alexandra's Art. By Amae It’s Friday night. I’ve been waiting for this all…

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt II

Gender & Identity

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt II

We shall keep saying that sexuality and gender are on a beautiful spectrum that we can slide back…

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt I

Gender & Identity

Biromantic, Cliterference and Gynosexual: A (non-exhaustive) list of queer terms Pt I

Sexuality is a spectrum and gender is a construct. Thems the facts. With that in mind there is…

Not all queers want to be queens: The dominant to precarious queer spectrum

Afro Sexual Politics,Gender & Identity

Not all queers want to be queens: The dominant to precarious queer spectrum

By Kneo Mokgopa There are straight women who entertain and accessorise themselves with eccentric and loud gay men…

Romantic vs Sexual Attraction: Marry, F**k or Both?

Love & Relationships

Romantic vs Sexual Attraction: Marry, F**k or Both?

Often in our dating or love lives folx confuse romantic and sexual attraction. There are many different types…

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Afro Sexual Wisdom,Queerly Spiritual, Queerly Cultural

Coming out to loved ones: A short toolkit to help

Coming out is possibly the worst thing that you could ever want to do. Ever. It is scary…

What’s in a dress?: Queer Femininity as Political

Afro Sexual Politics,Gender & Identity

What’s in a dress?: Queer Femininity as Political

What’s in a dress? In our case as queer womxn and non-binary folx a lot. Whether intentional or…

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