Gender & Identity,Sex, Relationships & Love
Politically I choose to only date women! (Say what now?)
Over the last few months I have found myself speaking about my sexual orientation and how I identify…
Going Beyond Consent: Speaking about it to small humans
I have been up since 3:30 am because my uterus is trying to kill me. At about 5am…
The politics of love: amour and f**king across race lines
I really like watching the Kardashian's. Like really really...really. I used to be a major fan of Taylor…
‘We may be equal but some of us are more equal than others’: Unpacking privilege within organising and safe spaces
By Amanda Hodgeson I was not able to attend the women’s march on 1 August 2018. I was,…
Always Anticipation
A face A crown of dreadlocs A talent for curating words into fists that dismantle An energy A…
Tomorrow will be different but today I don’t feel like it
By Amanda Hodgeson Monogamy: One partner for one partner. Polygamy: One husband, all the wives he can count,…
HOLAA in a Hot Spot: Advice on not being able to eat your partner’s pussy and dealing with a pregnant girlfriend
'HOLAA in a Hot Spot. Answering all your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.' To submit…
Afro Sexual Politics,Podcasts & Video
Listen: Querying the cloak, Queering the solution: Dealing with violence and abuse in our own feminist spaces (podcast)
Amanda read her piece for us on intimate partner violence in queer spaces which you can read here.…
Listen: Behaving badly: Black Feminist love in action read by Amanda Hodgeson (Podcast)
'The Black Feminist movement means absolutely everything to me. It has given me the tools with which I…
HOLAA in a Hot Spot: Advice on fixing funky sex, being in love with a toxic ex and wanting to be spanked
'HOLAA in a Hot Spot. Answering all your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames.' To submit…