Ten Confessions of a Demisexual
Demisexuality: A person who does not experience sexual attraction until they form a strong emotional connection with someone, often in a romantic relationship.
I can’t hold legitimate conversations with my friends about relationships and sex because they just aren’t the same for me.
My involuntary celibacy is a side effect of my Demisexuality.
My need for intellectual and emotional gratification is stronger than my sexual desire especially when it comes to consummating that desire with a stranger.
As a Demisexual, lonely can be bitter, lonely can be sweet…
A Demisexual thought!!!
“Why did she want to have sex right after we cuddled and talked for a couple hours without establishing the guidelines for a relationship???”
My lack of a partner leads me to overindulge in internet porn and junk food.
Over-analyzing about whether that young woman from Yale University you meet at a conference is romantically compatible with you while you’re trying to have an intellectual conversation about corporate social responsibility just kills the connection!!!
Graduating from college as a single Demisexual Lesbian virgin makes for interesting discussions at the club!!!
Where does the “D” go in LGBTQI?
The more questions I ask the more questions I have, mostly because I lack community.
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