It’s nearly Christmas so that means…family. And African families LOVE to be in your business. Send HOLAA your stories about what it is like being home, being gay and eating too much. Doesn’t matter if your in the closet or not.
By Yrsa Daley-Ward In the early hours of this morning it was far too hot for anyone to sleep. You told me I was strange and kissed me sunk your teeth into my soft bottom lip twice. So hard I thought you drew blood. I keep getting the scary feeling that if you look at […]
By Tosin Otitoju I am starting to like it in India. The local girls seem to have not a care in the world. They skip-skip-skip in the shade of a tree. They talk, with a lot of moving of hands and hips and eyes. Now they are laughing. I notice this girl. Her stomach is […]
*This post was updated to take out the problematic things that were in it. Thank you so much to all those who call us out on our f**kery, because that’s how we grow and don’t spread bad ideas like a bad cold. Never feel shy to call us out. Ever. Thank you for those who […]
By DykeRoad In the beginning I thought there was only one way to fuck: The straightforward way where you either asked the person you wanted to fuck if they wanted to, or you got asked. Later on, I found myself in situations that made me think that fucking can be as contentious as it […]
By Velvet Storm I wanted her so much. Lust burned inside me. Looking at her made me think of silks. Of chocolate ice cream. Of ice cubes. Of the way sorbet melts in your mouth. I was literally dying of longing.I loved my husband, dearly. He was amazing in bed. But the fact of the […]
By ‘Life’ I want sex. I want sexy sex. I want flirty dirty sex. I want someone who has my knickers constantly wet. I want that ‘you’re so sexy I’m throbbing’ feeling. I want lust. I want to eat lust. I want someone who gives me my bra back saying ‘you left this at my […]
By Lame They say that the reason why white people and black people cannot maintain long term relationships is because they will always fight about the air conditioner. I don’t know if this is true but I do know that I love white women. Oh, and black women. Oh, and bi-racial and Indian women. Okay, […]
By Hitchdyke Anyone who has watched even merely a few episodes of the L word will tell you that lesbians date within a circle of friends….but is that really true??
By Dee Close Last night I argued about sexuality, or rather the complexity of sexuality. Trying to put forth that nothing is fluid or linear and depending on a person, sexuality can be akin to the strength of a lattice with thousands of connections. Adversely, to another, sexuality crumbles under duress, just like the human […]