By Caroline Araes You have me in this sexual daze, taking my thoughts way beyond the limit. I don’t know what it is you do to me. Miles away yet have my body reacting to the words you send to me. You have my nipples hardening to the thought of your hands touching my bare […]

By Fayth/ @faythnw “Women in this culture live with sexual fear like an extra skin. Each of us wears it differently depending on our race, class, sexual preference and community, but from birth we have all been taught our lessons well. Sexuality is dangerous. It is frightening, unexplored, and threatening… Many of us become feminists because of […]

By Ashley Makue/ @AfroFiend The first time I saw you was a brilliant day. I had woken up too late to get to all the things I had wanted to make perfect before you came. My mind was racing filed to the brim with anxiety. What if you were a catfish? What if we did not […]

By Lipglossmaffia/ @LipglossMAFFIA I am tired of this conversation with friends, so I have decided to squash this once and for all. In fact, I want to be remembered for this important contribution of mine to social science! This is kind of a social science right? Whatever. I don’t even care. Let’s get to my lecture… […]

By Andiswa “Oh my God is that your name?” asked my newacquaintance with a rather dismayed look on her face. Wait a second what happened to the lady I was chatting to just now? The one who was returning the complimentson how good we looked in all the items we kept trying on. “Yes that […]

By Miss Ruby Woo The morning after: I am laying in bed, still (on a) high, listening to Crown Royal, thinking about the epicness that was last night. Oh last night? Last night was fierce. It was powerful. Sensual. Healing. So fucking erotic. Last night was a reminder of how enriching it is to let […]

By Funwaini I have something to disclose to you. Secrets about how women have always tasted somewhat better to me than men. Even when the boys that kiss my thighs have told me that I am much too hot blooded for a goddess. Rooting in first grade she would hold my hand and kiss it. […]

By Naija Dyke/ @naijadyke  About a week ago, I went to the strip club. Nothing remarkable,  right? I should add that it was my very first time and that I am 25 years old. Yeah. It is not that I have been a prude all my life or anything even though I did have that […]

By Zemu Huchi/ @zemuhuchi He always had this calmness, and mystery about him. Very intelligent, laid back and analytical, never spoke much and paid attention to detail. Seeing him in different spaces made my heart beat faster and slower at the same time. That band on his finger though, it made it all complicated. This […]

By HOLAA! We’ve all had to run from a bad heart situation before because we’ve chosen ourselves a woman who just isn’t right for us. It’s ok, Tinder is a real thing and you can’t be blamed for what the internet gives you. At HOLAA we’d like to help you get out of that hot mess […]