We got to have a great time in Namibia doing some mini workshops and one of the things we got to do was hold a safe sex and pleasure dialogue with the help of the Women’s Leadership Centre. It was magical. We had some fun moments, we had some problematic moments, we had some moments […]
Now sometimes you can have your nether regions set on fire, sometime they can be left ice cold, we sat down and spoke to Thabile about how to make it the former rather than the later. We spoke about getting the sex that you want because as women orgasms and pleasure are part of the […]
By Kagure Mugo We live in a world of hook-up apps, kink and sex positivity, where everything from apps to social media allow us to have access to sexual knowledge and ideas. So why are women still being shamed for expressing their overt sexual desire? Late last month, my friend sent me this message: ‘So […]
By Kagure Mugo The sex advice parents give is often very basic — usually the biology of it and little else. Sometimes the threat of pregnancy and HIV are mentioned. Jesus will be watching if sex happens outside of marriage is another warning, which gives one the feeling that our Lord and Saviour is standing […]
We held a safe sex and pleasure dialogue with some women and gender non conforming persons in Namibia and it was awesome and wild. We also managed to get them some of our safe sex and pleasure manuals. They hit us with some dope wisdom and some dope convo and we tackled some tough topics. […]
When women talk about sex one can’t help but stop and listen. The rise of women speaking about sex is something many, including the internet, cannot ignore and African women are not lagging far behind. From platforms hosting stories about bad sex, and ‘entering through the back door’ to podcasts discussing faking orgasms; women on […]
By Ruby Woo I am tired of bad sex. Now don’t get me wrong: throughout my twenties, I have had some of the most adventurous and thrilling sexual experiences . But this period also came with some very awkward, uncomfortable and downright dis-pleasurable sexual encounters. And unfortunately, for many women dating cisgender straight men, this […]
This is just another instalment in the series of African women chatting on their sex, we asked them what do they like done to them? They sent whatsapps, we cut and edited and did that raw thing. Give it a listen, its awesome. If you have any podcasts that you would want to send in […]
Podcasts are so real! Following in the footsteps of the sex positive greats we wanted to started having digital chats about all things sex and sexuality, African women and life. We wanted to basically sit in a studio with a Pinotage and be great, so we did. The first installment of our podcasts with the incredible […]
We live in a digital world, one in which we need technological help to track our meetings, how far we have jogged and even when we are ovulating. We like to involve technology in our everyday lives and sex is no different. Over time sex toys have come a long way, from a massive steam-powered […]
