We sat down with one of our loves and spoke about the effect that mental health can have on your sex life. From the need to speak about it to the fact that sometimes a manic episode can show its self in risky sexual behavior, this podcast got emotional, it was sometimes a lot, but […]
Have you ever tried to have that conversation with your parents. About squishy bits, orgasms, wetness, love making, bumping uglies, that sexy time? Was it successful? Probably not and if it was congratulations to YOU! In this podcast we break down the experiences of speaking about sex with African parents and why sometimes, it just […]
So you walk into a bar, looking cute as anything and think ‘tonight is the night’. Except it isn’t, because again 1. none of the women in there notice you because you are very femme or 2. Notice you but think you are straight. Femme invisibility is a problem people and femme flagging could be […]
We got to chat about all things on Power FM, from how we identify, to sexual assault in the community to art as archive to pleasure we got to chat all the things with Aphelele Somi on the Power Lunch. We even got to break down the Emergence Journal. It got wild, it got fun […]
We got to jump onto The Daily Maverick Show speaking about being an African Queer Woman in this day and age. Of course Maneo Refileo Mohale came and formed part of the squad. We spoke identity, speaking to the community, being able to find yourself and just generally jamming life. And we got to speak […]
We love Guys We F**ked – which is an anti-slut shaming podcast- and it was so incredible when one of our HOLAArites reached out to us saying they had been on the podcast and asked us to host it! Lwantale Kalemera, who is from the Bay Area in San Francisco, California (but her family is originally from […]
When women talk about sex one can’t help but stop and listen. The rise of women speaking about sex is something many, including the internet, cannot ignore and African women are not lagging far behind. From platforms hosting stories about bad sex, and ‘entering through the back door’ to podcasts discussing faking orgasms; women on […]
What to do when you partner does not give head back? Should you keep some wet wipes by the bed? What are some good tips and tricks for giving head? Why does someone keep mentioning the finger in the butt? Check this podcast out to find out the answer to these and other random questions […]
Women really do love sex, and sometimes not always with a partner. Sometimes the solo kitty stroke is the absolute best thing. We chatted about ways women do it why women do it and all things in between. Check out this podcast and the one before that was on faking orgasms. Continuing those coochie conversations with […]
We slid into the DMs, the whatsapps, private convos and all the intimate spaces to ask women around the continent about whether they had faked orgasms. We got some awesome solid quotes and we loved it! Here they are. Here are some other storifies that we have done. Here is the podcast that inspired this […]
